I am with Stuart. Deploy an “Agree and Amplify” and move on. His suggestions are great. My gut instinct was to say “You can call me the Toxic Avenger” and then move the conversation along.
I am with Stuart. Deploy an “Agree and Amplify” and move on. His suggestions are great. My gut instinct was to say “You can call me the Toxic Avenger” and then move the conversation along.
Thank you for the guide. As a person working in tech, I have struggled with just going with the flow because I thought everything needed to make logical sense.
Echo the comments on the Hitachi. It is worth having one around for sure. Especially the g-spot stimulator attachment. If you can get her to squirt and/or have multiple orgasms with it then she will be back. If it is her first time, then even better.
Another good play is to invite her to going shopping and get the toy that she wants. They all have different toys they like better, and they will know that they are the only girl that has used it. It is a good safety practice and can be a big hangup with girls, not knowing where the toys have been.
I wouldn’t worry too much about the whole de-sensitivity thing. Girls like their toys, but they almost all get to the point that they want the D inside of them.
I have had a situation come up where the girl squirted for the first time and she wanted me to get her friend to squirt and we had an on/off threesome situation for awhile.
I have used an Hitachi with lots of “vanilla” girls. It is actually a good conversation starter with “vanilla” girls because they usually want to try it.
Here is a good game to run when you have a Hitachi:
When the dirty texting starts ask them if they have ever used a Hitachi, about 80% will say no, but they always wanted to try but could never afford it, afraid to buy one, etc.
Tell her that you have one and that all the girls that you have had over to play with it have had the best orgasms of their life. Tell them every little detail, like out of romance novel. That stuff is like porn for them. Even if you don’t have a story of your own yet, just text her dirty details of a story using something you found online of a girl using a Hitachi. The key is too be very descriptive. They will usually start masturbating while you are texting them if you do it right.
When she is all hot and bothered send her a picture of the Hitachi laying on your bed and tell her to put her out of her misery and come over. They usually will within 24-48 hours. I found it best that if they do start touching themselves, tell them they can only get off on your Hitachi. It is a dominance play, but also if they do get off to your texting, then they probably won’t come over that night.
Most girls will want to use it on you when they are done, but won’t know how to bring it up. So offer it. They love using them on guys.