1&2- met this girl on Hinge and we had a pretty good back and forth.
Transitioned to her # and she was out of town over the weekend.
She got back Sunday night and we went for bubbletea. I had to take a piss so I we ended up going back to her place so I could use the washroom.
We made out a bit and I tried to escalate more but she had work early morning and showed me out.
Tried to go for the 2nd date and she tells me this. How would you handle it?
3rd image and different girl- been texting her back and forth for a month and go for the wine and # close and she messages this. How to respond as well?
Hey so these 2 girls were down to meet and seemed dtf. 1 was more sexually open and another more of the cute type.
How to respond to these objections and revivals?
So I get the # from this cute latina chick on Hinge and texting goes pretty good. We had the date today but she flakes because of work (not sure if this is legitimate).
The place I send for us to meet is in downtown. She loves across the water north from downtown. I live towards the south so downtown would be in the middle.
Where did I mess up? And also how should I respond?
Thinking of just texting "alright" and then re engage in a couple days. Or text her "breaking my heart (name)"
Here's the background- I don't live on my own but I have a car. Match with a cute thick Irish girl(left). She's funny and witty so we have good back and forth banter.
Friday night- Initially a wine date but we ended up grabbing a quick drink because she was going away for the weekend at 7am the next day. She was gonna be back on Sunday.
Good connection and chat in person. I made a lot of dirty jokes and she's open minded and seemed dtf. I made some verbal+physical sexual escalation but thinking back, I feel like I could've pushed for more. Drove her home and we madeout before she left. My plan was to close her on the 2nd date and she even talked about how I could come to her place next time. Sent her the Ryan Gosling meme earlier today but she left me on read.
So I've got a few questions-
1) Should I have escalated more sexually to turn her on and pushed more to close on the 1st date?
2) Should I have texted her sooner, like after I dropped her off or the next day?
3) Thinking of re engaging on Wednesday with "did you make it back to Vancouver in one piece?"
Or
"Still gotta bring you the batcave." (her favourite movie is Batman and she's a big Joker fan).
Or should I say something else?
4) Other than where I messed up by offering to pick her up and then asking if her place is an option, any other things I could've improved on?
