Irish girl - Re engage

Here's the background- I don't live on my own but I have a car. Match with a cute thick Irish girl(left). She's funny and witty so we have good back and forth banter.

Friday night- Initially a wine date but we ended up grabbing a quick drink because she was going away for the weekend at 7am the next day. She was gonna be back on Sunday.
Good connection and chat in person. I made a lot of dirty jokes and she's open minded and seemed dtf. I made some verbal+physical sexual escalation but thinking back, I feel like I could've pushed for more. Drove her home and we madeout before she left. My plan was to close her on the 2nd date and she even talked about how I could come to her place next time. Sent her the Ryan Gosling meme earlier today but she left me on read.

So I've got a few questions-

1. Should I have escalated more sexually to turn her on and pushed more to close on the 1st date?
2. Should I have texted her sooner, like after I dropped her off or the next day?
3. Thinking of re engaging on Wednesday with "did you make it back to Vancouver in one piece?"
   Or
   "Still gotta bring you the batcave." (her favourite movie is Batman and she's a big Joker fan).
   Or should I say something else?
4. Other than where I messed up by offering to pick her up and then asking if her place is an option, any other things I could've improved on?