@avilench so we have a date set for Sun 7 PM. Do I need to do something between now and then? I know your style is not to do much and that works for you. But for me, I feel like I'm gonna lose any emotional investment from her leading her to flake again.
"Sunday I can after 6"
She will still push for afternoon ...god knows why
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-I don't like Friday's daytime/afternoon date but I think its better than arguing over time not having a date at all. She may be going for an afternoon date because she may have long terms plans/image with me in mind and doesn't want to come across as slutty/easy. Also Friday seems a bit farther too but not going to contest on that.
-She tried the 4 PM date last time as well
-I went with "usually busy during the day, I can Friday 5:30 "Her "original response" which she deleted was "lol I would love too. I'll let you know when I have some time" @avilench I'm gonna wait today to see if she reengages with options. If not, what's the next move?
So she added me to on Snapchat via my number. I guess to keep helping me rem "how she looks like" lol I kinda don't want to indulge in Snapchat banter even sexualizing. I want to keep the mystery and move it for a date next week. "That's boring, I would rather see how you look like in real life" and then follow up with "Back in ATL yet" or just even that straight up. @avilench
Update: My suspicion was right, she's got sexy video up on Snapchat ..over 9K friends on it.Which doesn't matter to me. So another reason not to indulge in Snapchat banter and be like one of her fans. Prob selling content. If she brings up money will deal with it like in your party girl video. BTW her fetish for "middle eastern men" is quite real, she posts about it on Snapchat a lot. @avilench
@avilench here's the latest. So I actually didn't know Whatapp has stories lol. I happened to look last night on "status" and clicked on hers. You see the interaction. Btw she is a 10 voluptuous, Mixed, disk sucking lips, 23. Sh'es up really late 2 AM, 3 AM ...she could easily be a party girl, sugar baby type ....regardless, generally its been pretty good interaction so far. Bio attached in above comments if you need to see. Question is how to close next week. -Should I send her my Erotic Hypnosis video? Our conversation has not been sexual prior. [ Infact this is broader question - can I use this play with others and well and how?) I linked my IG to my profiles as we talked about but the issue is these profile only show pics not videos so unless some girl makes the effort to go check out Youtube it doesn't work its magic. Of all the matches, one girl did check it out ]
"What do you think of my video? NSFW. use headphones ;) link"
"Are you openminded? Would like your opinion on my video. use headphones ;) link"
Simple would be like you did in the your video, hit her tomorrow with "back in Atlanta yet" and then "I'm out of town for the weekend, what evening are you free next week? ( What's your schedule like didn't really work last time - she just said "flexible".
What is your bio?
Should I send her my Erotic Hypnosis video? Our conversation has not been sexual prior.
"What do you think of my video? NSFW. use headphones ;) [link]"
"Are you openminded? Would like your opinion on my video. use headphones ;) [link]"
Here's an update. I had to respond, didn't want to wait longer to respond. The conversation has been a bit sexual, not direct sexual about her or me. Should I do
" Hey I can get your opinion on something - Send her my Erotic Hypnosis video
Follow up in a week/10 days after
"Just wanted to share this since you asked for the first one" Send her my 2nd TEDx talk video which should be released by then (Although this line is a bit arrogant perpahs) She has said a couple of times she's likes how I speak, is looking forward to hearing me speak etc
What do you think? @avilench
Thank for you input. I already responded to her today since she double texted and asked me about it. It went fine. Will update thread.
bump @avilench