She replied with “Lol...good answer”.
Next step?
She replied with “Lol...good answer”.
Next step?
No. there was no makeout either. That's more in reference to our vibe, energy, and banter. It did take a while to bring that out of her because she's considered more of the introvert/shy girl.
I didn't kiss her because the night before I had already smashed one of my sides, so my sex drive wasn't really there, but still managed to keep it a bit flirty.
Even without doing that, to describe her enthusiasm towards the end of the date a bit more, the way she set up the second date was "I know of the most amazing place to go to on our next date. It's not too far from here, and it's a much more private picnic place to eat and enjoy ourselves."
I'll have to give you an example of a post date text from 6 years ago since it's in english, because for the past 6 years I've been living in central america and every girl I've texted has been in spanish thus far.
This example is identical to yours in the form of not making out nor having sex on the first date. In my case, it was the girl that initiated the post date text. However, the response I sent to her would've been the same if I would've been the first to send the post date text. The text is referencing something we were bantering about back and forth during the date, so obviously don't use the same thing unless you also mess with the girl about the same topic.
Also notice how I basically waited almost a day to text her back. That's typically the time frame you want to be in.
There are quite a few, but I'll point out two aside from the fact of multiple double texts.
The first one is the message where you included "sorry" at the end. This gave her a hint that you're not confident in what you say even though you trying to be playful or pass it off as a joke. The message would've been great without that word.
Second mistake was where you mentioned that you took her bio seriously. Even though you may be thinking that, don't ever tell that to a woman because once again it gives her a hint that you think too deep into certain things, and an in-person conversation wouldn't be as entertaining.
The first mistake you made was texting her 3 days after the date.
You have to keep in mind that even though there was no makeout or sex, if you are certain the date went awesome (great vibe and energy throughout the whole date on both ends), you need to keep the momentum going. The girl is going to find it highly confusing if you ghosted her for 72 hours, and as a result will most likely lose interest.
Also keep in mind that a girl agreeing to a second date isn't always concrete, sometimes women will do that just to be nice and not necessarily have any intention on going on a second date.
A green flag you can look for is if the girl is the one to initiate the idea of a second date, and/or tells you where she wants to go or what she wants to do.
In this case, don't call her out because she hasn't flaked, use this post to guide your next message based on what you said to her last: https://forums.playingfire.com/posts/what-to-text-a-girl-who-stopped-responding
Alex one time pursued a girl for 3 months so that's why this one might still have some hope. Either way, I'm not holding my breath, but I would like to at least leave this girl on pause with a good response.
I haven’t been making myself too available though. Such as waiting 2-3 days to respond, or even trying to set up the date in a week to 2 weeks because I’ve been busy with other girls.
I'll have to go in for another blood test then since the last time I went in I came out with 1400 ng/dL which is above the normal range. So I want to see if this is just an abnormal spike during that time of day or if my t levels are actually that high.
By the way, started watching Californication for the first time. On season 4 now. Sasha....