How do you spot time wasters?
How do you spot time wasters?
I got no reply so after a day I texted her "Are you always this talkative?" and she gives "Yes" so I put up the chat screenshot to Fire Texts app and I sent her "Well, we should get together and combine our talkative powers" she then replies "Google pay 2k" (now idk if she meant she only has ₹2k or wants me to send money so I assumed the latter and flipped it back on her by saying...) "Ya send me" and she tells me "You send me 2k" I sent her naahh nodding gif, she again texts me "Google pay 2k" to which I just reacted 👎🏻
This conversation happened like 2 days ago and I noticed she unfollowed me. So today I used a strong takeaway and sent her "Hey [her name], if you're not into this you can lmk so I can stop trying.
I felt our date went very well and I honestly felt there were strong vibes, chemistry and connection that's why I've been trying to make plans with you again.
But if you've lost interest... No hard feelings. I'll stop texting."
She replied "Works!"
I'm not upset or mad about it. But it really just baffles me that there are so many time wasters. Now this might be completely a location issue because if it's working for you guys and I'm using the same game but not closing, then it's most def culture and location issue.
Ik Alex handles this forum but if Indian PE is still part of PWF community, I'd love to hear his thoughts.
Yea i did get hand job from her but she was terrible at that 😭
Let's see how this pans our over some time. I'm also seeing someone else and have questions about it and have asked in a new thread.
Update* we spent most of the time making out, eating her out, cuddling and basically it was 4-5 hours of extended foreplay.
She seemed to get disappointed even when I hinted about putting it in or getting a bj. She said she's not ready for it yet and she wants to first have lot of public dates, get to know me and then see if I'm gonna be the one to make her lose her virginity.
I'm not disappointed but I'd love it if there was some mutual action.
Any advice on how to move things from here now?
I have watched all of em, we booked a room and are meeting in a few hours, she still is very adamant about the No sex rule. She says she'd want to lose her virginity with someone she knows she has a sense of security around and is very emotionally connected. She is open to foreplay and makeouts but no sex.
I gave her your classic line "I don't like sex with any arbitrary conditions around it. I like to take things with an open mind and see where it goes"
A lot are hidden. Youtube took them down?
Any tips on doing it? I mean we sexted yesterday, she does like the idea and was bit receptive but idk if she's gonna turn down the last second.
Okay so after trying to be very understanding and getting to the root cause on why she's being so sensitive about this and shutting down my escalation... she told me she's a virgin.
And she was in a relationship in the past with a guy and they broke up for this very reason where the guy wanted to have sex with her but she wasn't comfortable so they broke up. (ik most americans would not view this as a relationship but it's India here even talking phase is counted as a relationship lmao)
I kinda used take-aways and made her want to chase me by sending a couple of my shirtless mirror selfies and all that she became interested again to book a room in a hotel. Still she's very adamant about no sex and no bj. (I don't expect a bj the first time either) she's like we'll makeout, I can give her a massage and I can go down on her.
I wanna know what should I do more or less of that indeed makes her beg to want to have sex with me?
I'm not desperate to hook up with this chick. It's just I feel if we don't then it'll be platonic after that which I don't want. BTW I ain't a virgin so ik how to eat pussy but in this specific situation idk how to make her crave for me.
I did try, she does somewhat likes the idea but is not fully into it. She said, "considering this will be our second date I think we should get to know each other more at some restaurants pubs, so far our conversation has been very flirty (I like it too maybe I'm not as good as you) but I'd like to get to know you more"
I replied calmly and asked her sched for our next public date and we're going back and forth.
Question for Indian PE is this normal? if so how do I re-assure her concerns and find out what's making her nervous?