A lot are hidden. Youtube took them down?

Any tips on doing it? I mean we sexted yesterday, she does like the idea and was bit receptive but idk if she's gonna turn down the last second.

Okay so after trying to be very understanding and getting to the root cause on why she's being so sensitive about this and shutting down my escalation... she told me she's a virgin.

And she was in a relationship in the past with a guy and they broke up for this very reason where the guy wanted to have sex with her but she wasn't comfortable so they broke up. (ik most americans would not view this as a relationship but it's India here even talking phase is counted as a relationship lmao)

I kinda used take-aways and made her want to chase me by sending a couple of my shirtless mirror selfies and all that she became interested again to book a room in a hotel. Still she's very adamant about no sex and no bj. (I don't expect a bj the first time either) she's like we'll makeout, I can give her a massage and I can go down on her.

I wanna know what should I do more or less of that indeed makes her beg to want to have sex with me?

I'm not desperate to hook up with this chick. It's just I feel if we don't then it'll be platonic after that which I don't want. BTW I ain't a virgin so ik how to eat pussy but in this specific situation idk how to make her crave for me.

I did try, she does somewhat likes the idea but is not fully into it. She said, "considering this will be our second date I think we should get to know each other more at some restaurants pubs, so far our conversation has been very flirty (I like it too maybe I'm not as good as you) but I'd like to get to know you more"

I replied calmly and asked her sched for our next public date and we're going back and forth.

Question for Indian PE is this normal? if so how do I re-assure her concerns and find out what's making her nervous?

@avilench ?

Bruh you look decent enough, just use some AI pics, get hingeX and bumble tinder subscription. Things will get way more easier and for texting game... PWF's videos are the best, they've helped me a lot.

Yeah, saw one of your videos on how to maintain the attraction when dating or with FWB and that line of yours "I feel something is off, you can tell me what's up" feels gold honestly, I think pairing that up with "look, if you're not into this, just lmk and i can stop trying" could potentially work in my favour?

Idk I mean I haven't tried this line with other girls. But, would you recommend talking about this over call, voice note or text?

It ain't like we never met or the chemistry was bad that call would be so awkward but curious to know what you have to say 🤷🏻‍♂️

P.S - I do in fact have other leads and planning on meeting them but since I already have some good chemistry and we've made-out, I feel it'll be wasted efforts with this one, but if it doesn't work out... cool, on to next one.

Nahh bro, seems like you didn't read my post in it's entirety. I met her on dating app, and for the second date went out at a party. It ain't like we'd keep bumping into each other.

As for leads, been using hinge for a month, got total 75-80 matches, current active 40 matches (rest either unmatched or deleted their profiles) went out with 2 other women before meeting this girl, but didn't feel the vibe and chemistry.

As for context, I'm from India, and culturally it's not that easy and fast to escalate and speed date like an avg American :)

Yeah no the thread is wayyy tooo long because we met twice in a span of week and had fun banters in between over text, but we made out like a couple of times on our second date, and so it seemed to escalate things slightly, test waters and send lay-up texts made the most sense to me that's why I sent.

I already waited 24h+ and sent her a skeleton meme "waiting for your text be like" and still no response to that.

And as Alex says you can never predict or know the actual reason behind getting ghosted, even after things have been going super smooth. So it's all upon how she's feeling at the moment and how emotionally reactive she is at that point.

I might wait a week or so and send her a final takeaway, but I'm not sure what it should be... "hey if you're upset about something you can share it with me but if you've lost interest no hard feelings :)" or should I just say “Hey, I enjoyed meeting you. If you’re up for meeting again, let me know. If not, no worries—take care.”

Yeah bro, I do have firetexts (as I mentioned above) but since it only reads the last 10 texts and we already went out twice, I know her a little bit, a more context was required. I do think I prob hit point of no return, not because I didn't close maybe because she felt too rushed, so I sent her one of your skeleton meme "waiting for your text be like". (before you replied here)

Idk if I should triple text and be persistent and ask if "hey if you're upset about something you can share it with me but if you've lost interest no hard feelings :)" or just say “Hey, I enjoyed meeting you. If you’re up for meeting again, let me know. If not, no worries—take care.”

I mean it ain't like I'm super sold on this girl, but I've seen a lot of your videos where you were persistent even after getting blocked and all and you flipped the tables and it worked in your favour.