Comments by John Flynt

Thank you for this feedback!!

Ok the soft close part makes sense as you and Aaron explained it. I just thought from the thread of all the winky faces and what not that there was a green light, so I went for the kill. That confusion emoji i sent after she said no was genuine lol.

That's my biggest sticking point right now is to sexualize the convo without coming off as a cliche fuck boy. I've been slowing it down and building more rapport, but I keep getting stuck in friendly banter if I don't sexualize it right from the start, like saying "you're fucking sexy" in this example.

Was the "You scared?" comment in the right direction of getting the girl to qualify herself?

I keep matching with so many hot girls and they keep slipping AHHH. I'm determined to become a success story here.

Wow thank you so much for this incredible feedback!!

I had a gut feeling that I was moving things way too prematurely, but I thought it would work because I saw in done in some successful examples, but the examples usually did show the conversation getting sexual beforehand.

I also thought it would work because I am pretty good-looking (the average Attractiveness score of my tinder photos is 9.7 based from Photofeeler), so sometimes I assume my face is DHV enough.

The "nothing sexual is going to happen" line is something that I grabbed from John Anthony in one of his videos, where he was talking about getting super reluctant girls that didn't want to feel like sluts to comply to coming over to the house. But again that was probably after some DHV had been shown from a previous interaction in the club. I definitely see the fault in using it here. That was dumb lol.

I didn't realize how bad saying my friend left would look before I said it, but clearly that's what put the nail in the coffin in the end. BAD JOHN.

When asking for availability, is asking "what's your schedule like this week" a better way to go?

Takeaways are:

1. As you said, SEXUALIZE the damn convo before seeding
2. Make sure I've DHVed myself
3. Ask for availability in a higher valued way
4. Don't make it look like I have no friends lol