I’ve been casually dating this chick for a month and things were going really well. Two weeks ago, she flaked on a date for the first time and started texting less, just before I had to go on a work trip. She still initiated rescheduling the date and we planned on doing something when I got back. While I was traveling, I didn’t text her at all. I got back the other day and texted her to schedule a date but now she’s ghosting me. She would always reply within an hour or two before this. How do I revive this? Not sure what to say. I think I may have fucked up by not texting and it may be time to move on, but I want to at least try because we had great chemistry and I actually liked hanging with her.
Would really appreciate some advice @avilench .
For context: I've read through all the guides about closing back at your house, "the point of no return", etc. and honestly I think I've done a pretty good job applying all the tips.
I've been on two dates with this short, decently hot latina chick, both at my house. Both times we split some wine, watched a show, and made out for a long time (I initiated and cut it off), we also made out after I walked her to her car both dates. The second date was weird though, we were making out, I kissed down her neck, got her tits out, kissed her tits, etc. and kept at it for a while but she was wearing a bodysuit thing so I couldn't take off her shirt. When I asked if she wanted to keep going she smiled, hesitated and said no so we kept kissing. I tried to take the body suit thing off after a bit but she smiled and said "no" again.
I'm not sure what I could have done better here and i'm getting kind of pissed. I'm objectively out of her league (not being a dick or anything but she's clearly chasing me here: she's super responsive over text, has literally driven an hour to my house for both dates, tries to hold my hand every time we walk, texts me as soon as she gets back from our dates, etc.). I've also been with much hotter girls and have more girls in the pipeline so I'm not really invested in this but I have no idea why she's not going all the way.
Has anyone else been in this situation? What should I do? Is this a waste of time? I'm tempted to just ghost her but then again, I've already gotten decently far with her and feel like sex should definitely be possible but I feel like she's shy or self-conscious or something. I'm not sure what I could be doing wrong considering she keeps demonstrating investment and seems way more into the kissing and texting and stuff than I am. I definitely do not want to get in a relationship or anything. Would really appreciate some advice, never been in this situation before.
Not sure whether to close or keep this role play going. I want to start sexualizing slightly because she seems down but not sure how to transition into it.
