Comments by Steven Bond

Appreciate it dude

Thanks man. I actually haven’t acted too attached or anything in person or over text. I just meant that in the past, every time we texted to coordinate the next meetup, she would always reply super quick. She has always acted way more invested than me over text and in person. I’m just overthinking it now because I could actually see myself dating this chick long term. So I’m wondering whether I should double-text or just move on.

You’re probably right, I appreciate it. By “help me out” I meant she was lying back on my couch in a way that made it hard for me to get her clothes off without either her moving or me moving her, but I definitely should have kept escalating.

What would you have done on the second date? I escalated more this time, kissed down her neck to her tits but still got the “no” twice when I tried to slowly get the shirt fully off.

Honestly didn’t think of that haha, probably worth doing though, thanks

Thanks man. On the first date she was wearing a bodysuit thing so I couldn’t get her clothes off lol, it was kind of weird and made me think she didn’t want to have sex coming into the date. She also didn’t help me out at all or indicate she wanted to escalate further so I didn’t push for it. But yeah sounds like I fucked up asking her that on the 2nd date. Any tips for what I could’ve done differently?

Thanks for the response. So during the 2nd date I got to the point where I was rubbing between her legs (clothes still on though) and had her boobs out but when I actually went to take off her shirt, she still smiled and said “no”. Then later on after more make out I asked if she wanted to keep going (which sounds like it was a mistake) and she said the same thing.

It seems like she just didn’t want to fuck. After the 2nd date she texted right when she got home and asked about next date plans. I think this might just be a weird one.

@avilench . would really appreciate your advice here man

Thanks man, got the number. How do you handle situations like this? I want to try and keep the vibe going before setting a date to meet up and don’t want it to just go into interview mode

Thanks, went with this, any idea how to close/transition here? I feel like going for the wine close might be abrupt

Looks good, thanks.