Frustrating Girl who ghosted on app randomly messages me 3 months later
I matched this girl in December 2023, we spoke for a few weeks but I noticed she was very inconsistent with her response times. She’s abroad as well, but I’d find myself messaging her and not hearing from her for 4 days then she’s message. We went back and forth for a while the usual talk, then it came to number close. She asked me for my number, but because of her inconsistent responses I told her send me hers as I had a feeling me sending mine would lead to low response rate, to which she didn’t respond, so I call her out and she sends a voice note saying she asked for my number and I didn’t give it, so I complied and sent my number, nothing..I waited a few weeks and called her out but nothing came so I just left it and moved on. 3 months later (3 weeks ago to be exact) I get a random text and it’s her, so I figured may as well see where it goes, she tells me she’s down to make plans but then it’s the same patterns emerging again with her. I’ve attached screenshots of the last few exchanges where I call her out. This ones frustrating me, I’ve called her out and it worked slightly, then we’re back to square one again. I feel to call her out again in a week or so, and be a bit more firm. My first call out I kept it calm and didn’t want to sound butthurt, but since she’s the one who initiated contact again after 3 months I think I have good reason to cal out again if she doesn’t reply and just give a final yes or no to any plans, I like this one a lot but I have got so many other leads it ain’t worth the headache.