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How are y’all treating these arranged matches?  Feels like a waste to consider a strong opener when the match was setup by Facebook, and not the two people swiping  But i’ve been shooting low effort “Hey how are you“ with no luck so stuck between numbers game or unreal effort for low tier chicks  These matches happen daily so feels like a stable lead flow but could just be noise since girls are not actually interested in you 
How do y'all stay motivated with local chicks?  Been ghost past two years while drifting deeply into PPB (Had my third throuple, but V structured)  Still updating profiles, improving pics to create a story, and looksmaxxing like my life depends on it.. but every girl here in the states feels like a distraction holding me back from the grand prizes abroad.  All my same night lays come from spending the cost of a flight, and the few that are cheaper are girls I hope I'm not seen in public with (when you only wife baddies its hard to be seen at a Chipotle sitting across a 6). "Don't go for 6's bro" \= please refer to cost a flight sentence prior or explain to me how you knock down baddies for the price of a coffee.  Only thing I could think holding me back is my Short Term only on all profiles, unless you guys telling me you're also sticking it with the short term label. My match rate is so low on Tinder & Bumble it feels like my relationship status is only thing giving friction. I don't use Hinge, it feels super female oriented & time consuming but have all the other apps (Feeld, Chispa, Blush, etc.) Have experimented a bunch of bios and prompts. Added a bunch of shirtless photos, took off all of them, tried with just one.  Not sure if guys having success are writing long term on their profile to get more matches and then running the game on them regardless. A login from a recent OG who was wife'd has me thinking that may be a strategy to consider since my likes are crazy low with a highest membership account.  Feel like there is a trend for cold approach but hate the idea of not locking in on one thing & becoming the best at it, for me it would preferably be apps all day. Besides the fact that most of these Cold Approach pushers are just selling their course like everyone else so its in their best interest you always suck at either aspect in dating. \[And their always either 6'4" or ugly as hell with no chance on the apps world] At the end of the day it feels like you'll go through all these hoops for chicks who end up being insufferable the majority of the time.  I have other paid mentorship groups and when I ask for other people's experience everyone goes quiet like they're embarrassed to admit their results are similar if not worse.  Are you all having a wildly different experience?  
This girl stays opening me on my stories at least 4 times a year when she’s had the same man for over 5-7yrs when I was dating her friend for like 3 months. I’ve never followed her she’s always followed me. I could tell she wanted me since back then and would imagine more now. Her man can’t compete with me. Thought I could escalate but quickly got a pull back. Anyway to save? Even if it’s just to keep the follow since she engages with my content
Any of you have a standard approach for this? I’m pretty forward and I want to just DM said friend my number to text I don’t follow chicks I pursue so definitely not doing that.
Successfully * Like you continued from the night before where you left off or started a sexual convo for breakfast I feel like the mood isn’t there for most people/women that early so might be just a no zone. Reason I care is to set up lunch fuck dates (for less time investment)
I’m trying to master the busy and unavailable vibe and deduced to take weekends off from replying to chicks. It honestly feels great but not sure if I’m too unavailable and more curious on how you guys handle response time to balance out from being always available (aka low value)
Sup guys! I’m recycling a 3yr old post I found that needed some revision and wanted your help. Below I have topics of discussion and whether they fall into low value, no value or high value. Would love your feedback on any of these and even more so an addition of topics you find tend to get a girl invested in convo. LV: Food. Weather. Avg Job. Politics. (Local & Global) News. Anything me/you are actually interested in. NV: Travels. Shows & Movies. Gossip. Sports. Events. Music. Any of my/your dislikes. HV: Current Environment. Her Apparel. Her travels. Impressive Jobs. Even more Impressive stories. Throws Banter in everything.
What’s up guys! Thanks in advance for all your help and hope your making mad progress on your goals — I wanted to know which of you have experience with read receipts being used by yourself? (Not talking about girls who have it on but interested in any experience you have with that as well) I’m most interested in when you deploy it: Like from the beginning? Post first fuck? or once it’s a consistent fuck? I see varying opinions on its position. The one girl I’ve tried it with from the beginning as a trial was the most invested I’ve seen in awhile but then was also my first “ghost” in forever. Obviously this isn’t sufficient data but want to hear your experience before burning through my good options Saw some Reddit post about it being a major flag but I don’t think hot girls use Reddit so hoping it’s not a widespread opinion. Reddit FDS Post: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/kp6t29/a_massive_red_flag_when_texting/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf P.S. Any of you follow girl dating tips to know your opponent better? 🤣
I am not publicly a raging conservative/capitalist but I will call out BS in the left wing media very intellectually and just save it to highlights to help spread awareness. I still maintain 2k+ real followers while following under 300 people so I don’t look like a troll page. Decent DHV. Think these posts completely rule out the Pronoun Princesses? Do you even bother with these type of girls? They either appear to be the most into sub/bratty behavior or just easiest lays. Was also wondering if you mindfully don’t follow certain people on Insta like Dan Blitz or Top G knowing girls might stalk you for it? — I’ve never given af about what a girl thinks about my opinions because I can easily passup any argument and say she has a point on everything so I’m seen as open minded. Just feels different online with girls getting more worried about dates and how much screening they do outside of our convo
Usually don’t even consider girls who don’t show or hide their stomach because I assume she’s fat (or she wouldn’t be hiding it). Recently lowered my standards and gave some of the questionable ones a try. One of them just sent me a pic with a super freaking flat stomach. We haven’t met yet but wouldn’t believe it was the same girl from tinder to nude if it wasn’t for the background being identical (in her room) How do you guys filter out the too thick girls without missing out on the girls with a flat stomach or small waist surprise?
