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Tried to follow your advice on approach anxiety, which is my main problem, like most man. 1- black girl on bus station, the bus was so late and i was extremely hesitant. After thinkin about it a lot i got closer and closer (like a real creep hahah) and approached her. I asked her what bus she was waiting for, than turned into personal questions to get to know her. When the our bus came she rushed in and put her headphones. Didn't want to ask for the number, she looked shy and wanted to hide on her headphones. I also Don't know if she was 18 2- approached 2 italian girls on bike. Asked her where she's from and what are her plans. She's from Milan and was about to get on vacation for two weeks the day after. Asked her for Whatsapp and she made a joke because her phone was dead. I gave up easily and this is my biggest regret of the night. She was digging the approach, asking questions about me. I could've grab her number from one of their friends. I gave up so easily at the first objection with a local girl that looked pretty interested. I can't stop blaming myself for it. 3- approached two girls. She was in a state of shock and wanted to escape like I'm a serial killer or a virus. All she had to do is say I'm not interested without moving.  Yet she moved making it look like i made her change place or followed her. She asked me what I'm trying to do?? Don't know what the fuck she means. It showed me how woman give zero fucks about hurting your feelings when they don't like you. In the same way i give zero fucks about them, i said bye and dipped. One thing that made me cringe is the recording of my voice on the first approach https://drive.google.com/file/d/15HXnupan8Mq-k2VK4ITC1U\_-ExlrY2pt/view?usp\=drivesdk I also thought my voice was normal instead i sound like a beta, do you think working on voice is worth it?

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Probably most people in this forum are from the US, so basically I’m in Milan and we have something called a heat wave. It’s very hot because hot air is coming from Africa.   I was so excited to use all the knowledge I gained about cold approach, but this year looks very different from last year.   I think tourists heard about the heat wave and got scared. I don’t see the thousands of girls on the street that I saw in July last year.   I feel like I’m screwed; I studied cold approach for nothing.   Another problem is I don’t have money to move around. I can easily sleep in my car but I don’t have much money for gas and food.   If Milan is empty, all the other cities could be empty too.   Any advice? \--- Let me know if you want it to sound more formal or casual!

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I have tried to generate pictures to larp status like you suggest on one of your latest videos. My idea was to generate pictures of me singing on stage in a small heavy metal club.  Problem is everytime i ask ai something that complex it's a mess. The ai creatures a picture that's more like cartoon when you ask a lot. I tried something more simple and it went better. The plan b is to ask ai simple composites, like adding a hat into a scene. It works great for this. I always wear the same brand of hats anyway, the black trucker hat with animals. I have many of those and wear it both during day and night game. I wear it in my profile picture here too. So i just added the hat into a scene to make it look like I'm the singer. The hat on the floor makes it look like it's me. I approach most girls with that hat What picture do you think it's better? With or without hands holding the microphone? Do you think there's any chance to make complex status pics like singing on a stage? It looks like ai implodes when you ask something that complex from scratch  \\\_\\\_\\\_\\\_\\ Ps. Another idea to convince girls that it's me was to add a better background to the picture i have as i profile pic in my profile here. My face looks good there and i don't want to waste it. But ai couldn't do shit, it added backgrounds that look like cartoon or something 

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So i was at the supermarket and i saw this girl who looked just like a dream, tall, beautiful legs, mini skirt. I'm sure she's a model as I'm in Milan and it's quiet common. As soon as she saw me she turned her head the other way, she looked scared and not wanting to give eye contact. I waited for her outside and it looked like she knew my plan in advance so she did like a sprint to avoid me. This is not in my head, I'm sure she saw me both inside and outside.  Felt shitty because I'm arab and maybe she is scared of immigrants and i might look like an immigrant who doesn't even have papers so i felt very bad.  Thing is all the girls i got from tinder were white and simped for me very hard and gave me chad treatment. But none of them is close to this girl. It's like two separate universe. All the girls from tinder were average. Felt some pretty bad anger but i decided fuck it i will chase her and tell her hey were are you from, knowing very well she will run a way but at least i would have my rep in. Tried following her and she started running toward the bus. I wanted to use ger to get a rep in knowing she will Sprint away. Wanted to use what I'm sure she will do to embrace the pain but she saw her bus. Every time this happens i go on Reddit and search for posts like "Woman have advantage in dating", " woman are never single", "woman are never lonely like man". I start reading the post on my phone instead of approaching and i get angry every time woman come up with the usual excuses like we don't have any advantage because man want to use us for sex and not love us . The tactic is to portray man like monsters to downplay the advantage and what hurt is male users side with them  I'm thinking of improving my style and approach younger 18 yo tecno girls. For some reason they are always receptive, not use to beign approached and never reject me on the spot. I need to get use to females so I'm not weird around them anymore Looking for advice to improve my inner game because it takes so little to go back to incel rage even after fucking 15 average girls with tinder My brain never updated

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I work delivery so i tried to approach at the supermarket. I had girls give me clear IOI's, circling around me, staring me, and yet i still pussied myself out of approaching. She gave me so much room to get approached that i literally felt bad for her, for not actlling like a man. She grabbed random products just to stay close to me so i could approach Also, i saw a very beautiful girl in leggings, probably a polish tourist, and didn't approach. I felt so bad it was like dying inside. I have moments of anger i start thinking why we came to this. Woman are privileged and showered with sex and love since the age of 15. Meanwhile here we are building entire sites, paying for apps, coaches, courses, AI pics and so on. We can do a huge body of work and can still end up with nothing. Woman don't do any work and still end up always paired with someone. I feel like an alien because my ideas are so different from normal people. Normal people think man have advantages and a lot of sex. I know this is not the case. In fact I'm pretty sure 90% never have a date their entire life. Yet popular culture portray "dating" as a normal activity that all people do, when it's not. All woman date but most man don't. I also feel that every time i approach a girl at the mall/street she will know that I've been looking for girls the entire day and that I'm fishing randomly until i catch one. Not that i care about their opinion but still bothers me. I tried to approach at city center milan where tourists take pictures, i felt weird standing next to the historical building to talk to girls. Again they will think I'm doing that the entire day Building a good instagram with ai is taking too long, it hard to get enough fallowers is i don't look like a weirdo. I'm thinking of just asking for numbers even if it means i will lose a lot of girls. Only super yes girls will give up something personal like the number i stead of ig Also I'm thinking of going all in. Like literally approach the entire day until i get a positive experience that can rewire my thinking and be used as a positive example. Just like tinder, i didn't believe it untill i started getting laid and not it looks too easy even What i could do now is literally stay in the supermarket or city center the entire day, force myself to approach until i get a close I think us man end up like that because we go so many years without intimacy. Last girl i fucked was last may, 12 months ago. Yet society accuse us of beign the privilege sex? I have hard time accepting this things, i find myself angry and debating myself during the day

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I'm looking for a new job in Milan, i honestly just want to pay the rent and cold approach as much as possible. There will thousands of new girls every day in Milan for the next 4 months  While I'm looking for any job, i was also thinking i could look for a job where i meet woman in the job itself, this way i will be sort of gaming the entire day I don't know how to work as a bartender, the easiest job where you meet tourists is things like McDonald's, but I'm afraid is seen as low value and they dress you like a dork at McDonald's  Any other ideas?

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I'm like extremely lucky to have the looks, when tinder used to work i had hundred of matches, compliments, and at least 10 first date lays. I moved to Milan last may thinking tinder will work better in a big city but it's just dead now. I'm in Milan so in one of the best cities in the world to approach but approach anxiety is absolutely gonna ruin my life. If this keeps going until i lose my looks i will be fucked. I have girls staring all the time, yesterday for example i was at McDonald's, like every Friday evening there was plenty of young attractive girls that want to grab something after school. There was this group of girls staring at me, they see an attractive guy that looks like a fuck boy, with earrings, tattoo, hat, but i acted like a pussy on the inside and did not approach. They kept staring until i finished my coffee and now I'm so hurt and frustrated because i will lose my looks and get old without fun experiences to remember. What i should've have done in this situation? They were 3 girls, no free table next to them. Approach and ask one of them for ig? I feel it takes an extremely high level of courage, but at the same time i proved to myself i can do it. I approached in the past. My ig also sucks and i still don't have the money for unreal pics, so my brain uses that as an excuse. Young girls like to give ig, not the number. Same thing happens when I'm in the city center next to the cathedral, if a girl stare at me i get self conscious and can't look back at her, which is absurd because they are the best ones to approach. I also star feeling weird when I'm at the mall or walking in the city center looking for tourists or local girls, it's like i start to feel like a predator as if everybody knows what I'm looking for. I also start to think that the girl i approach will know I've been looking for girls all day. If it wasn't for all this i could approach 100 girls a day and get every week in Milan, I'm absolutely wasting and throwing away my life and it hurts. The fact that i have the looks hurts even more

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I have a DSLR camera, which is better for taking pictures i suppose, but not in the comfort of my room. I have a 50mm so i would have to go outside to get the right space, light and settings. With the phone you can take pictures on your room and called it a day, but I'm asking myself, what's better for unrealphotos? Does ai appreciate if you give him better pictures to work with, like DSLR ones? 

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