Girl looked scared
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So i was at the supermarket and i saw this girl who looked just like a dream, tall, beautiful legs, mini skirt. I'm sure she's a model as I'm in Milan and it's quiet common.
As soon as she saw me she turned her head the other way, she looked scared and not wanting to give eye contact.
I waited for her outside and it looked like she knew my plan in advance so she did like a sprint to avoid me.
This is not in my head, I'm sure she saw me both inside and outside.
Felt shitty because I'm arab and maybe she is scared of immigrants and i might look like an immigrant who doesn't even have papers so i felt very bad.
Thing is all the girls i got from tinder were white and simped for me very hard and gave me chad treatment. But none of them is close to this girl. It's like two separate universe. All the girls from tinder were average.
Felt some pretty bad anger but i decided fuck it i will chase her and tell her hey were are you from, knowing very well she will run a way but at least i would have my rep in.
Tried following her and she started running toward the bus. I wanted to use ger to get a rep in knowing she will Sprint away. Wanted to use what I'm sure she will do to embrace the pain but she saw her bus.
Every time this happens i go on Reddit and search for posts like
"Woman have advantage in dating", " woman are never single", "woman are never lonely like man". I start reading the post on my phone instead of approaching and i get angry every time woman come up with the usual excuses like we don't have any advantage because man want to use us for sex and not love us . The tactic is to portray man like monsters to downplay the advantage and what hurt is male users side with them
I'm thinking of improving my style and approach younger 18 yo tecno girls. For some reason they are always receptive, not use to beign approached and never reject me on the spot. I need to get use to females so I'm not weird around them anymore
Looking for advice to improve my inner game because it takes so little to go back to incel rage even after fucking 15 average girls with tinder
My brain never updated
yeah man, there is this "3 second rule" where you should aim to approach within 3 seconds, anything other than that you may get in your head, or come across as performative, try hard, pre-planned thing instead of what women usually prefer spontaneous, in the moment, "it just happened" charismatic
you mentioned 15 average girls with tinder, how many lays from cold approach?
1 set doesn't decide rules imo, if something happens 10+ times sure maybe then you can look to change things or ofc I'd recommend PwF stuff/coaching
when you get maybe a few dozen lays from cold approach, you'll start to recognize odds and see if a girl is even worth the set vs another set in the room but if the girl is hot enough, I personally still likely will approach even if I see the odds as 5% or less as you'll realize with enough experience some sets you just get "lucky".
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Yeah i would like to join the mastermind group, but the only way to join is to buy the course. At this point in my life i try to stay away from courses.
I have mentally masturbated for enough years reading courses in my room. I just want to join an action based group without any course. You can see based in my posts how much of an overthinker i am.
I understand it's his job, I'm open to pay more the first month, but not buying the course.
You could say i had to lays from "cold approach". It was half assed, not on purpose, and strange environment. I would say zero lays from a proper cold approach, the type you do on purpose, not the drunk lays
Last year here in Milan i did about 30 approaches on my own, and than the anxiety creeped and started feeling weird walking around
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You need to know when is time to stop. If she already showed indicators of disinterest, STOP. Otherwise, you might get into trouble.
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I understand thank you, fucking russian are racists
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That's not necessarily the issue. There can be many factors into play. I've been instantly rejected by girls of my same race. Maybe they found me ugly? (event though I know im not). Maybe she was lesbian? Maybe she didn't want to get into trouble with her husband? there's many possible reasons.
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So if a girl is actually running away, chasing after her is a bit creepy so wouldnt recommend doing that. I think you just needed to approach her in the grocery store instead of waiting outside, that was your biggest mistake here
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What stopped me is the fact that she was aware and looked away immediately like not wanting eye contact. And this happened in the store
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It is still a lot less "creepy" to approach immidiately in the store then wait for her outside. Honestly in a situation like this if i was in the learning phase i would approach, but if i alreaddy mastered game id dprob skip