i’m never on here anymore so thought i’d post one. first time we talked she mentioned typical covid weekend uneventful or something. i quit responding. that sunday i’m a little buzzed at a party. so i’m like i’m going full in on here. she invited me over.
i turned her down. thought since i did she’d feel rejected and never wanna meet. next day she was cool but i flaked. i really was tired from the weekend. i almost flaked on her the next day but i hate when girls do that to me. i felt obligated.
anyway. 29. 5’8. latina. cute face. nice body. she’s the homie now so i blacked out everything.
https://imgur.com/a/68k3ZEh
this is a problem i’ve always had. no matter how i frame things after hooking up a few times girls always want more.
for me the best fuck buddies are girls i’ve never taken on a date. they’ll be like “can we ever like go out to eat or something.” i shut that shit down and it’s cool. i keep my distance.
but for retention i find way better results when we went on a date. and i like dates. but when you’re doing fun things with girls they always want to move things towards being boyfriend and girlfriend. the only solution i’ve found is downgrading them from fwb to fb. but i like fwbs. it seems like an impossible relationship to manage though.
i went through convos that went somewhere and everyone gave me something to work with. last night got opened by a gorgeous chick with “hi!!” i like the double exclamation marks enthusiasm but i’m left with little to go on. what’s a good canned response to that.
if no one gives me anything better i may go with “wow! two exclamation points, love the enthusiasm.”
is anyone else feeling this way now? i used to do so much better on tinder. now it’s all bumble and hinge. like i may even delete tinder. i hate swiping. i think tinder is mostly good for the youngest girls. and i’m not having any luck with them. but i’m liking chicks in their mid to late twenties better than i thought i would.
it looks like this went fast. but we were bumbling on a saturday night and i was at a party. sometimes if message fast but sometimes i would take thirty or so minutes to respond. she generally responded faster than me. the bumble texts were from 7 pm to 1:30 am. you do the math.
the party was in hollywood and i knew this girl that let’s me smash in the area. she had the same name. we’ve hooked up a few times and she’s crazy. i’m pretty sure she’s on drugs. i always thought that but this time she got real crazy and paranoid. she kicked me out at 6 am and tested me like i was a spy or something. i had just deleted her number and text thread. then i get a text from a girl with same name same spelling and an android i assumed it was the girl who had just kicked me out hours earlier.
anyway i covered her pic. i like her and don’t want to reveal her identity. she is 29 and very pretty.
my address exists not only where i live but also in downtown la. she went to the wrong one which cost her an extra half hour in driving that had happened with mail but never like this.
i’ve incorporated a lot of pwf style into my game. i’ve learned to make it congruent to me. it’s taken some work but i’m killing it now. i’ve mostly quit going for house dates at this point. i’m not a direct person. i’m nonchalant. so for me it’s best to act like i’m undecided. anyway here’s the messages. number on thing i learned from alex is that the texts need to be relevant to her. that been a big problem of mine.
we went to a cuban restaurant. and had dinner and drinks. then we got white claws and sat on the beach drinking them. then went to a park and sat. we spent five hours together. don’t even think that’s necessary. i was just really enjoying spending time with her. eventually we went back to my house. we watched a couple music videos and then like an hour of pirates. then i kissed her. we fooled around for at least a half hour and she was ready to go. we fucked all night. i ate her out and she gave me head. fun stuff. really great night with a really great girl.
https://imgur.com/a/2Wdf9u3
the first three texts are duplicate due to an error on my part would be cool if this site could fix image uploads so they post in order.
she has a very diverse ethnic background and olive skin and a nice fat ass with skinny waist. only problem is she’s only 5’3. but i definitely have fun in bed with short girls. i just like having a tall girl by my side while doing fun stuff. nice to not have to look down. plus i’m tall and i think that tall guys should date tall girls. leave the short girls for the short guys is my look at it. i’m not trying to take advantage of a god given gift that i had no control over. the world isn’t fair but i do my part to make sure there are girls for shorter guys. but sometimes you can’t help who you like
girl was model tier looks. 25 years old. on date she said she’d just got out of 3.5 year relationship and i was first online date she’d ever been on. met at beach. had a couple white claws. then had tacos. got a bottle of wine and went to my place. didn’t even finish our first glass. we kissed for like ten minutes. i went to go down on her. she said we’re not having sex. i asked if i could kiss her (pussy). she said no. so i stopped everything. i was like well let’s just hang out then. if you need more comfort i can wait until next time. but i’m to turned to just make out. then she climbed on top of me and started kissing me. a couple minutes later she was like i changed my mind about sex. it’s taken some work to integrate pwf style to be congruent to me. since i have shits been amazing. so thanks to alex.
something i realizes is i wasn’t making messages relevant to the girl. i started focusing more on the girl and viola.
https://imgur.com/a/KpSTjZa
The reason I got her off bumble was because she said she wished the weekend wasn’t over and thought I could get faster response off bumble. She just hearted my message. I feel like texting again today isn’t good. But unfortunately today is one of few nights I have free this week.
