Salvageable?
So, I met with this girl last week. This was before I started reading into this community, and I've never been much of a texter. Surprisingly, after only a few messages she agreed to meet up with me for bowling. I've attached the text logs, the rest of this post will be how the actual date went. I am not good at sexualizing a conversation or flirting or whatever, I pretty much went interview mode with jokes thrown throughout. She seemed reserved in her answers, and I couldn't tell whether she was shy or bored. She suggested we grab drinks when we got there so we did. After an hour or so, she asked if I smoked weed and invited me to her place. We smoked, watched Netflix for about 20 mins before I started making moves. We fucked for probably 45 mins-1hr, I stopped because it was hot as fuck in her room and I was soaked and tired, but she seemed to enjoy the sex. Cuddled for maybe another 45 mins before I left. Now, I am confused as to what she wanted. Personally, I did not feel a huge connection to her, but I figured that was because I was quite anxious, and she seemed to be as well, so I was going to give it another chance, and if I still felt a lack of connection I would let her know and see if she would be open to just keep it casual. I'm mostly confused because she seemed engaged in the texts until the day of when she stopped responding. I didn't know if it was because I seemed like a player, inviting her to a bar near her house. We were supposed to meet Sunday and it is now Tuesday, is there anyway to save this?