Alex, what is your opinion about this picture to create a balance? I've been told by many girls that I seem very arrogant on my pictures and they're always positively surprised when they meet me in Real life because I am not as arrogant as my pictures portray.
When I asked a few girls they told me that they don't even know why they swiped me right, because they usually hate arrogant guys. My thought was to include a smiling picture to difuse that arrogant Player image a bit (show a different side) and seem friendlier as girls love to see a genuine smile. I think I got enough dominant and serious pictures to not come across as a nice guy.
So I've been hearing mixed opinions about using more than 5 pictures.. Some people say it's extremely tryhard to use more (a chain is only as strong as its weakest link) others say it's not. What's your opinion on me using 8 pictures? I feel like the Shirtless selfie even though it's a selfie makes me look more real because it's not "perfect" or professional, besides I'm not flexing so it's less tryhard as well.
I just like the 8th because it could be out of a movie and I look badass (it's the fav. Pic of some girls), the 3rd because it makes me seem responsible and just has a nice vibe, the 5th because it's the only one I'm smiling in, it's social, shows girls can be themselves around me and that I'm easy going.
Some German coach said I should remove 3, 5, 6 and 8 but I definitely disagree with that as that would make me look quite boring and kinda one dimensional. No way to come across as tryhard with 4 pictures but that's not painting a story of an attractive, dominant successful man with multiple facets. Also I actually think all of my pictures are different from each other and none is actually "a weak link".
His reasoning: Do you think that a guy who is super popular in real life will spend hours building his Tinder profile?
Will he carefully browse through all his photos and then select 9 to prove his worth?
Fuck no.
You can tell a captivating story about yourself in 4 or 5 photos.
Look, if you can’t convince her in 4 photos, you probably won’t convince her in 9. What’s more likely is that something in your 9 photos puts her off.
Retain some mystery in your profile. Don’t fall for the tryhard-trap by posting too many pictures.
It's extremely hard for me to not sound scripted but at the same time also not be boring, especially if the girl doesn't invest anything. I tend to text way too witty, also called over gaming even though I'm not using lines, but what's missing is "realness" and being more Blunt.
Not sure how to go about it, I've gone trough PWF countless times but all that's sticking are single lines. If a girl doesn't give me anything to work with I'm often clueless on how to continue the conversation.
I feel like I need some kind of structure to follow. Texting witty all the time is exhausting as well, as I always try to come up with witty responses on the Spot. If a girl invests in the conversation, bantering is easy but many girls don't invest right from the start on.
I used to open girls with things like "Hey Name, give me your number and delete your account. You can tell your mum that you've found your husband 😉" atleast that allowed me to follow some kind of routine/role play but many girls either didn't reply or thought its copy pasted.
Some girls gave me their number (I actually got a Fuck buddy from that) and I went on some dates thanks to that opener but now I'm trying to become more real and get away from all those witty role plays.
I also used to have a Roleplay bio that had the highest Opening rate ever and allowed me to banter easily with the girls who opened me (Partner in crime) seems like girls love that role play, but now I have a PWF bio and I've yet to be opened.
Yo Alex and Dave,
what's your opinion about using something like "Hey Name, do you know what's interesting about your pictures?" as an opener and then just comment on one of her pictures so she knows it's personal? Works like a click bait and makes her curious
I've tried "Hey Hottie ;)" and "Hey cutie ;)" but both aren't perceived too well some girls even deleted me right after (how fucking prude must they be?). Can't use hey trouble because it's not a positive word in Germany. Also those openers make it harder to actually start a conversation because girls usually reply with Hi or Hello.
On the other hand they're slightly screening because Hottie is quite sexual while making some comment about their pictures doesn't neccarily screen. Except if u say something like "You look like a good mix of cute and sexy" but that would be the 2nd line
I have a German friend who just opens with "Hey Cutie ;)" as a first, then "I want to sleep with you, BUT.." as a second and once she replies "I want to have pizza after" as a third message. Some girls react positively to it and he ends up sleeping with them. But when I tried the exact same thing I kept getting negative reactions or girls deleted me so I think it's too obvious and makes girls feel like a slut
Hey Alex and Dave,
not sure if I should include any of these, would appreciate your honest opinion. Personally I love the first one on the bridge, because it looks like it's out of some movie. It also fits the RnB Stereotype that girls connect with me (Chris brown, Jason Derulo etc) and my beard genes are on point. Thought about adding it as the last (8th) picture
The other 2 with sunglasses could come across as too posed.
Hey,
some guys on Facebook said that I'm more likely to get good feedback here than on the Facebook group as Alex and others are more active so I thought why not give it a try.
Would appreciate some feedback about my profile. Barely getting matches here in Germany, was wondering if it's because of the new algorithm, the sexual bio inspired by David (might be tryhard because of the countries/too long, too sexual for Germany, girls might be put off because it's English) or something else because I think my profile is in the top 10% of guys since I worked on it a ton over the years.
Without the pic with the girl I'm getting even less. I know normally pics with a single girl are bad, but all women I asked about it loved it because it doesn't seem romantic like she's my gf or ex, it looks candid, sympathetic and like women can be themselves around me.
With the attached pic as my first I'm getting some more likes and matches but I feel it's not Congruent with the bio, too friendly. Of all the girls I asked, even random ones on the street, the Smiling one and the black and white one were their favorites.
About the Smiling one they said I have a million dollar smile, look happy, attractive and sympathetic. About the Black and white one they said I look like a businessman, confident, dominant, stylish and hot.
Also at this point I wanna thank everyone who created PWF, the Program is amazing and helped me a lot so far!
Cheers
