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Tonight had a date with this cute latina chick. I thought i'd try a different tactic: reverse psychology. Basically i said i liked to take it slow and that i was looking for a gf. That i wasn't into one night stands. She seemed into it. We met at a bar and had drinks. Usual banter and joking. We even argued because i told her i dumped a girl because she wouldn't shave her armpits. She said i was misogynistic and i said it's a personal preference just like you wouldn't date a short or obese guy. Eventually we made out and left the bar. Walked back to my place because i said i had to take my dog out. We continued to make out at my place. Little by little got her on my bed. Took a little while of her playing with my dick where she said: if we have sex we can't date. I pretended to resist for a while. But eventually was like: ok no expectations, i want you and whatever you decide after is up to you. Then we had sex. Was a tad bit awkward after but mostly because she thought i would be sad or mad or something. I obviously don't really want to date her and am happy with a one night stand. Just thought it was interesting how this reverse psychology worked.
ok so this girl sent me a like on bumble. i don't get likes that often and thought she was super cute. got her number off bumble and scheduled a date. the date went well, i was cool non-needy. told her things like: i'd help you with your car but only if you dont fuck up the date, etc. we went to have drinks, i even sparked conversation with other cute girls around us as a group. then we went dancing, im taking some dance classes so it worked great. we made out on the dance floor and then went back to my place. we had sex, we were pretty drunk and i think i got too agressive (e.g. not enough romance, power plowing, etc.) she told me i didn't do anything wrong but she didn't like we had sex on the first date because she was looking for something more. and that she didn't just want to be my sex object. i got sad because i liked her and told her im sorry because i feel i fucked it up. was able to get a second date over texts. this time we went for dinner. i was extra nervous and not as cool, because i like her. she had to go to work so we just made out a little bit and it ended on a semi-good note. now we have plans for this upcoming wednesday. texted her late saturday, she was probably working and she left me on read. def want to chat a bit before our date wednesday. i feel like her interest in texting has gone down a bit but i still feel she likes me. here's the link to the texts: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1RGTya4xQurvoPjvNr7C-79jbtJz1ff9E?usp=sharing any tips appreciated. i like her enough that i'd like her to be my gf tbh. also im 36 and she's 25. dont think she cares much because she messaged me first.
hey y’all been chatting with this girl from hinge. she’s cute but i’m not really into her so i was trolling a bit. she actually had a bad reaction to the gosslin meme. well the screenshots speak for themselves i was just going to leave it alone but i figured some of you guys may have a good answer.
matched with this girl on hinge. she actually sent me a rose. chatted for a couple of months. she would disappear then i would disappear. we finally met for a day the day before veterans day. she’s a teacher. we had a good and romantic date and hooked up at her place. i ended up leaving in the morning but totally regret it because she gave me a lot of hints she wanted me to stay. i like her a lot and would like her to be my gf. she’s not being super responsive and i don’t want to get needy. lmk any advice. ps writing this from a kenyan girl i just hooked up with. ps sorry pics updated out of order
Hey all, Tomorrow i have a data with a 20 year old girl i met on Tinder. I'm struggling to come up with a good date idea. Usually i meet my dates at my place then go to a bar that's walking distance and come back and close. However, this girl can't legally drink. I don't want to do boring dinner. Was thinking of going to watch a movie and then go back to my place and see if she wants to drink a bit. The problem is the logistics on how to get her to my place. Thinking of getting her an uber to the theater, and taking my car. Then driving to my place before dropping her off at night. Any other ideas or suggestions?
Not sure what i should say here as a response. Could use some ideas.
Hi all, Only recently got into OLD. I have been doing cold approach for years so taking this online was a natural transition. I'm in ok shape, could lose like 10 lbs. Latino in my mid 30s. Until now i had decent success with Bumble. I'm trying to get fitter before taking some good pictures. So far i'm just using some selfies and a picture my bro took when we were in cambodia. The matches were slow to come in in Bumble. I had pretty much the same profile in Tinder with very few matches. Recently i revamped my tinder profile and i decided to run a little experiment and put my dick size in my bio. I have a decent size, nothing crazy. I'm also 6 feet and don't consider that tall but still put that. Here's what my bio looks like: 6'0 | 8" | City Name 📌 Brown Skin. Black hair. Like to get sweaty by dancing, running, and lifting. Redacted Entrepreneur. Must love dogs. In Redacted from Date - Date I basically added a travel date to a good city to add some DHV. My pictures are basically the same as before just added a couple of recent ones. The results are astounding. Just the match rate has gone up tremendously, tons of chicks open me. What's interesting is very few mention the 8 inch thing right away. One girl that i closed said, wow you weren't kidding. But most girls just pretend they didn't read it when we start texting. Later the freakiest ones do ask for dick pics. So, this makes it much easier to sexualize just with the typical trouble, discipline, spanking, etc. I'm getting girls from 18 which is crazy, virgins, etc. I am honestly overwhelmed and low-key addicted to messaging girls. I wait a bunch to text back but it's because i'm truly busy and just forget about them. Thoughts?