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Whats up @avilench . I was wondering if you can take a look at my profile and bio and see if they are congruent. I do get matches but I’m trying to optimize the bio section specifically and make it congruent to my “looks” I was thinking of add a bit of curiosity to it to have girls open me up about it because I rarely get them to open me first. Same with prompts. Let me know what you think
Profile critique: What’s up fellas. This is my current photos from Tinder which they’re all the same across all platforms. The other ones are from my last photoshoot. Which ones should go and which ones from the new shoot is good for the apps or perhaps IG. Any feedback is accepted @avilench .
FR: IG game. Super bratty girl, couldnt handle her LMR. Massive strip of validation and reverse psychology Comment only if you have quite enough experience with bratty girls. Text: worked on this for approx 2 months. Enough persuasion after her saying she “is kinda seeing someone.” Great text game imo and enought sexual frame, but wont talk about it that much here. Big thanks to Matthew to help along the way Date: Public. Heavy teasing, sexual and physical escalation(sexual DHVing what not) while passing tons of shit tests. Pull: pulled after 30ish mins. A bit of long walk uphil, we both ran out of breath for a bit lol and had awekward silence. Kissed in the elevator but she was pushing me a bit, I flipped the frame and said we’re not doing anything tonight, dont look at me like that. Apartment: we chilled on my couch, physically escalated a bit. Then took her to my room. Saw my bed restrains, I asked if she was bonded. She said some guy tried to do bondage using scarf. I dlved him. Then she said I might go no. Asked why, she said its abit too aggressively sexual for her to have sex on the first date. I asked why, people can have sex on first date or 10 th date it depends on chemistry. She was sitting on my bed and I was on my chair so she was higher than me. I reframed her if she is shy or nervous, she said she is not. I said ok good, I’ll give a message and if we have chemistry and have sex, great. If not thats ok too. She said I dont need a massage. She opened the bedroom door, I said ok Lets have wine on the couch and you can leave in few mins. On the couch I asked few questions including her last relationship, she said she dated a guy that was so toxic/controlling to her that he used to track her location on her phone and shit like that. I asked for how long, she said 8 years. I then knew that she likes Toxic guys or else why would she date him for 8 years. I did a massive strip of validation. I said “ listen, I dont want to have sex with you tonight, you don’t seem that fun. You’re sexually inexperienced. I don’t know if youre fun and submissive or not in the bedroom, Idk if you taste good” She said but you just tried to have sex with me to which I said “yeah, Im not convinced now” She opened her eyes so wide and flipped 180 and started insanely qualifying herself to me. She said “I’m very submissive in the bed, im very experienced, I can ride you and make you feel great, You can do whatever you want to me” I then looked away and said “I dont see it” I grabbed her by hair toward me, mildly chocked her. She started breathing and moaning. I intentionally didn’t go for the kiss, was just trying to turn her on. She then stopped, stood up and put her shoes on. I stood next to her and asked her “im curious about something though.” I asked after she responded “how experienced are you in the bedroom” she then qualified herself more and added, “I’m brat, I like to be spanked, chocked. I have daddy issues” I said “ok, come her” I grabbed her waist, then pulled her hair. Pinned her down on the table behind her, and started spanking the shit out of her. She started moaning and saying yes daddy, please harder. I dirty talked to her while spanking. At one point I said “does this pussy taste good?” She said “yes daddy for you it does, I promise” “I said I’m not convinced” then pulled her arm to take her to my bed room. She said “no” half way and I said Im leaving and left. Qs: 1- should I have been more aggressive with her from the beginning, or when I was spanking her ass on the table, I shouldve said with dominant tone “On your knees, now”? I thought of this after. 2- Also, is this a liability issue meaning she could accuse me since she didn’t agree to all of that? Comments only for experts in this archetype of women. Don’t come here and say bs like I should’ve not done this. @avilench .
I might’ve made a mistake by double texting at one point. How to move the interaction forward here? “Im curious about something” “Do you like wine?” Go for close
Huge investment from her side as you can see. Didn’t respond to my last text yesterday. What went wrong and how do I re engage here? @avilench .
Many PUA emphasize on the idea of preselection and showing off as you have many other options to girl. How would one show that off in textgame?.Do you just directly say that I have other dates lining up or is there a subtle way of actually implementing it in text? @avilench .
Hey guys, So my accounts has drastically decreased the number of likes and matches. I am getting less than 2 likes a day on all three apps. . As a matter of fact, I haven't had a date in 2 weeks. I wasn't very concerned about it because I've been focusing on my fitness a lot these weeks, until now because it's concerning. I hypothesized that it's the number of boosts Ive used last months on Hinge and bumble, it could be that the city I live in (LA) is very alive now and a lot of people are going out so no one is using online dating. even those couple of matches I get dont respond to my openers. My bio is here but not sure if it the photos or actually shadow banned
Im posting a message that I sent to Alex recently as how I’m struggling to pass LMR on my dates per his request. If anyone has had the same problems that I’m face, feel free to give your opinion and how you overcame it too. Hey Man, This is Mustafa here. I'm reaching out to you because I need advice from you personally. This is not about the text games but about the actual dates. So far, I have been on 7 dates, 4 public, 1 to her house, and 2 to my house. I've only gotten one lay so far, which was the first one that came straight to my house, she was an ebony girl who was super DTF and was perceptive really quick to my sexual vibe, and we fucked. On the first 2 public dates, I was a pussy and didn't sexualize enough, the last 2 ones I sexualized heavy including touching, flirting and building comfort and we were vibing, but there were very resistant to even a kiss. pushed and pulled but still failed. The last two dates, one to her place and that one was a good one, we made out heavy, I sucked on her boobs and gave her a massage but at the end of the night, she said she was "apprehensive and not feeling it. the last date was to my place, she just left as I'm writing this. we vibed, flirted, I sexualized, got in close proximity, and were able to physically escalate but resisted a kiss. pushed and pulled and still resisted and said she is not feeling the compatibility. I guess my problem now is that I cant handle LMRs, especially not knowing how to respond to her concerns and persuade her otherwise. the most common concerns that I'm getting are "I'm not feeling it" "I don't want to have sex on a first date" "No, I don't want to do it". some say that before I even go for a kiss, some say literally as im sucking on her tits. I really need you guidance o this one, and I hope you respond
should I close her with "feeling adventurous tonight'? she seems very DTF, so I want to score that
closed on Tuesday for a drink at a bar nearby. I went soft sexting bc im still a little nervous on sexting since im a beginner. one thing I noticed that I thought was low value was me reiterating her response when I said "sounds very fair to me as long as you pick up a cute dress..." that's because I sent a text and planned how she responds and how I would respond to that but she gave me a response that I was planning to say if that makes sense. avilench . she is not that hot buts its a good way to start to boost my confidence.