May I be honest with you line always works for me. I like your style is a good one too but for me the “ May I be honest with you “ one works most the time
May I be honest with you line always works for me. I like your style is a good one too but for me the “ May I be honest with you “ one works most the time
I ended up sending her that message today and she ended up unmatching. I’ve been gaining more matches so it’s not like I took a loss but at the same time I guess I could’ve played my game a bit better and joked around with her since that’s what she was doing with me and that probably would’ve made the interaction better but at least now I know what I could’ve done
You know I actually see your point, like for instance the photo of me sitting on the bench it does look a bit stiff. Like I don’t look too relaxed and also I do look stiff in my club photo as well but to be fair that pic was took without my knowledge so it wasn’t possible for me to make that photo better.
I feel like more activity photos would make my profile 100% better but the funny part is I’ve been using these 5 photos and I’ve actually been able to get matches on Hinge and FB Dating and I’m gonna video call a girl tomorrow. But more activity photos will be great I just need to practice on taking better photos and make my posture when it comes to photos more confident even though in person I’ve been told I have a confident walk.
My advice to you would be have your photos taken in different locations because most of your photos looks like it’s all been shot in one place. The photo of you with the guitar is great but it looks posed, have a person take a photo of you playing the guitar and have it look more natural. If there are any other activities you like to do besides playing the guitar include those as well ( some could even be faked for example the photo that Alex used to use of himself on a motorcycle. He doesn’t know how to ride one and he got matches with that photo included and also he was never asked if that was his motorcycle. ). You could also look through his Instagram and vids to get a better idea as to how you can improve your photo game.
The only reason why Brantley replied with, “ Anything constructive to add? “ is because you didn’t provide any solid advice to up his photo game all you did was make fun of him. Even Alex being as blunt as he is would’ve added great feedback after saying something like that.
Saying that he looks like Ned Flanders and probably goes around selling bibles isn’t valid criticism, it’s just being harsh. Being honest and then adding to that honesty with advice to get him better photos to improve his matches would’ve been the route to take and would come across as high value. That’s why Alex is able to help guys get laid because although he’s brutally honest he can at least chime in ways to improve better game rather then be like “ Look at how much of a dweeb you look! “. Also if that’s all that Alex did on his channel was saying shit like that it wouldn’t come off as he knows what he’s doing it’d just look like an excuse to be an asshole.
Honestly I’ve never had anyone ask me any questions about my dog in my pics unless I brought it up and it’s on rare occasion when I have someone comment on my dog. So if someone mentions it you could bring up that it’s just a friends dog but honestly I don’t think it’s something to worry about imo. In one of Alex’s photos that he used to use he had a pic of him siting on a motorcycle but in reality he doesn’t know how to ride a motorcycle and it was just a delivery guys bike ( someone correct me on that if wrong. ). Which speaking of which I have a drum set in my house I was thinking of using for an activity photo although I don’t know how to play the drums.
I agree with Ryan, do something like this ( First photo ) or this one ( Second photo but only smile edited ). Also try and have more activity photos taken of you and as a suggestion don’t include any photos of you with friends. From personal experience photos with friends never works and they’re always more interested in one of my friends than me so don’t include pics with friends, if you want a photo with friends then try and make yourself look taller ( unless you’re already tall ). If you have a friend who owns a dog or if you’re out in public and see a dog have someone take a pic of you with the dog, dog photos work really well.
Lmaoo, now that you mention it I don’t know why anyone else didn’t catch on to that about how it looks like I’m cupping my balls. I do agree that I need to gain more weight, I can’t disagree with you there but I wouldn’t say I’m very skinny but I am skinny I can’t deny that and as for the dog that’s just how some breeds are, she’s a miniature pinscher and Australian Cattle Dog mix. I do need activity photos or at least one more since I already have a pic of me at the club ( I have my other pics in a different post on here these are just new photos I had taken of me and the first one is a photo I already had just used FaceApp on it ) but adding one more activity photo wouldn’t hurt. As for the red shirt on the other hand I actually get a lot of compliments on it from women and it’s also a conversation starter so I’m gonna keep it, how come you don’t like it though out of curiosity?
Also do you think this photo is a good one or still not good?