Comments by Rob Alberto

She's super invested. And her Jaw is broken. Chat with her from time to time and make her laugh. Set up a date when she can speak. But don't rush it.

For sure thanks. The interesting thing and what threw me is that my profile does not focused on my art at all. It’s all sex positive. And I would say forward. Since it’s Feeld that’s what I have on that profile. On bumble I’m more tone down. Thanks for the input.

Update:
I got her talking on Feeld I made a comment about " I'll tell you about it on our date." after a question she asked. You know soft close.
She then made a comment about "You are very forward" Now I took this as playful banter
-Cut to got her on instagram after asking if she had one. She added me and messaged me first on there. I made another comment about "when we get together" Again going for the soft close... but she didn't bite
Since then I have not gotten any investment from her. I tried to vibe with her but she whent from giving sentence answers to just liking my messages.
So I lost her interest...
I finally asked "what she was looking for?" and here is where the screen shot pick up.

She said she didn't like how forward I was. I miss read her I feel. Since we matched on Feeld I thought that was a good strategy.

-As a note she said she's into Poly and Ethical none monogamy.

Any help on this one would be appreciate it.

How do I re-calibrate in a elegant manner?

"avilench . Alex you're my only hope "haha

deleted

"We should split a bottle some time soon and work on our tan." Just to get back on meeting up. It donesn't matter if you actually get some some together.

Yeah makes sense. I just changed it for a day or 2 just to check it out. I'm off line until I get there.

Alright, thanks for all the feed back.
I think I was able to navigate this interaction well-ish. Soft closed and she was down. There were days that she messaged in a 24h window.
I asked her what she was looking for earlier and she mentioned some bad relationships. So I used the line about "good things never never come to those that don't take a chance"
This one has been a bit of a handful she has giving me little to work with. But I was able open her up as it were after I got her talking about some of her interest.
She has never asked any "buy in" question of me though.
And though I was cracking jokes and keeping it light she never followed me into the light sided convo. She always seems very serious.

Then she dropped off and finally got back saying it was a rough week. That's where the screen shot picks up.

I'm at the point where I don't even know if we're compatible. She's a shy handful as she said. I don't know if it's my text game (which it might be) or actually her?

I want to know how to handle this kind of objection. As you can see she was very forward with this objection.

Physically she is super my type and if there is a chance, however small that I can salvage this. I want to smash that!
Any suggestion would be welcome.

I actually don't know what to say back.

thanks as always.

deleted

Something like “ Well glad you’re not my teacher. I would have had very inappropriate feelings for you.” ?
Sexualizing but not cringe.

Cool thanks. Dyslexia is killer for the you’re and your stuff. Haha