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Obviously "it depends " but I'm curious what guys think who've done a lot of tinder think works best? Give her a chance to jump in first or is it that important? Also, how long to wait on double texting if she doesn't respond to your initial "hey trouble"? 24, 48, 72 hrs?
She is hott! Matched about 2 hrs ago. Tempted to follow up "hey trouble" with "those ponytails though..." thinking it may make sense to see if she responds to the double text before bed because it says she's in town from LA (2-3 hrs away from me). Wait till tomorrow?
We moved to text, has said she's interested in splittinga bottle but has been elusive about settingup anything definitive. She said my sexual jokes were funny and replied that i was handsome when i said "glad you didn't reply I'm too ugly to have a screaming O with" (background)... Current convo: she replied "not yet, lol.." when I waited till next day to ask if she'd picked out a sexy outfit for our date? I responded "I'll settle for sexy underwear". It's been 2-3 days, thinking to reopen with "if you're into that sorta thing" and sending a 2nd text that pivots from sex as I think she may be concerned how forward I've been.. thoughts for good pivot reopen? I was a bit sexual on the app and she has been cool with it, but mostly lols, no escalation responses. Thinking to give it another couple days if no response. EDIT: will prob reopen with Ryan G meme, but open other suggestions She is 36 btw, but I'm 41 so old man here learning some new tricks, lol. Go easy on me