I wanted to give you guys a little tip thats been working well for me lately.
So, I've got this little tactic I've been using and it's been a game-changer. I know I'm not the only one who sometimes overthinks what to say, right? Lately, I've been trying something fun. Before I hit up the girl I'm really interested in chatting with, I start by messaging a few other girls with playful stuff for about an hour even if there are girls I'm not interested in at all. It's like a confidence booster and gets me into this flirty and light mood. And guess what? It's seriously leveling up my texting skills. I used to get all nervous, but now it's different. It's like I've got more options, and I can chat with the girl who used to make me anxious without freaking out. Maybe some of you are already doing this, but I thought I'd share because it's been a game-changer for me. Even if I'm gonna meet someone face-to-face, I shoot a few messages to other girls just to get in that playful mindset. Maybe this could be helpful for some of you too