“Oh yes 😏 *thinking about pinning Sara against the wall”
“Oh yes 😏 *thinking about pinning Sara against the wall”
Bro ☠️ She must really think you’re handsome if she’s still engaging at this point! This is cringe AF. The “pin you down” is literally from a meme!
Actually I read this as she’s still intrigued but she may have lost a bit of attraction/value and just wants to see that you’re really for her. Girls need to qualify too. I don’t like the frame that qualification is a one way street. Supplication is different tho. You should never supplicate. She wants to know she’s not just a fuck. That she’s a least a little special. And not just meat. Bring humor back and get the vibe going again. Avoid sexualization for a little bit, just vibe like you were re gaming her from the beginning. Build back your value
It means she’s DTF but subtly! “We should change that..”
Honestly bro you need more emotion in this convo. She’s responding but it’s emotionally flat. She sort of blurted that out cuz she wasn’t feeling it. It’s probably dead. But whatever you do inject more emotion in your follow up
Don’t go against it.. go with it. She’s just trying to be cute. I don’t like overthinking cute vs handsome. Yes and principle to keep positive frame. If you’re feeling ballsy “Pretty penis too ;)” or you may want to build more investment first “It’s even better in person 😉”
She wasn’t really that invested and I think the romance line was coming on too strong (too much investment from you atm). You needed to build up more emotion in her I think before.
Dude, reading this is a bit cringey from the start. I’m not a fan of that first line, seems like soft closing from a low investment place. Nevertheless she responded positively to your first msg. The second sentence was a bit too try hard, meaning you were just trying too hard to use that line. Again, she responded okay. Then you blew it up with the bratty line. Reality is she’s a Grandma 👵 going to bed so early.. you could’ve teased her a bit and spiked her emotions “Cutest 👵 on here” and stayed in a positive frame rather than a combative frame. You could try to recover with something like “Let’s start over.. Hi, I’m Shawn. I like pizza and kick ass at Mario kart. Pleasure to make your acquaintance Sarah.”
Yes, it’s a little cheesy but that’s the point. You’ve got to walk back her upset and make her rethink your personality for a second. Then you can make progress forward
Bro, she’s telling you she doesn’t see you as a real person, and so you want to run more game! She’s expressing a concern and you’re blowing it off. At this point, I think you might need some realness/empathy. Hard to say what to say without the text thread. Maybe “I’m a playful and carefree guy most of the time, but I would like to slow things down and get to know you better”
Thought you were waiting for 4 or 5 suggestions lol