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Trying to get back into dating apps but they feel kinda bad - it could be my country though. I know my profile picture on this website is probably my best pic but I let myself go and my face is a bit rounder. I am gyming to lean up again but I feel like its a bit catfishy rn. Ive got a lot of likes on my new account but battling to get high quality matches. Any advice appreciated.
She seems keen but flaky, I havent really built much investment. Maybe I should call her next week or something?
Im getting close to having a good profile. Looking for some suggestions as to what to add. Ive got one or two not so amazing photos still in because girls kept accusing me of catfishing despite being verified and having my insta. Im thinking a tasteful topless photo on a beach would be good or me doing a cool activity like boxing/ skiing? Ill add some other photos in the comments
someone recommended this line but I just got countered hahah
About a year and a half ago I was getting close to 0 likes on tinder so I watched all of Alex's videos like I was studying for my exam finals. Since then I have replaced every single one of my photos with ones that were specifically taken for tinder and have made massive improvements since. I am decently good looking and 5'10 ( Pretty sure im 5'9 but I say 5'10) but only actually got results when I started using better photos. Ill be honest, it doesn't matter if your friends and family and grandma say you are handsome if you look average in your photos. You are competing with the best of the best on Tinder and the only thing girls have to make a judgement about you is your photos so they need to be perfect. Look hot in your photos and you will get more matches, less flaking and honestly you don't have to deal with nearly as many shit tests. Get a friend and borrow a DSLR camera. Go to Zara and buy basic fuckboy clothes and jewellery. Go take 300 photos in the poses that Alex suggested in his videos, and realistically edit one until you are sure that you look hot. Phone game is very important for setting up the first date, but a girl is not even going to let you try and seduce her if she doesn't find you more attractive than the average guy sliding into her dms. If it is impossible for you to look good in photos then you need to work on yourself. Hit the gym, get a new haircut, get a skincare routine and throw out your old clothes. There is no one who will make these changes for you and the only variable you can alter in the dating game is yourself. So be the best version of yourself.
Ive been on about 60-70 dates in the last year and tbh I owe a lot of that success to PWF so I figured I could try and give something back to the community with what works, especially with regard to getting the girls number off of tinder. If there is enough interest Ill do it as it will be quite time consuming editing out numbers/names etc
Wondering if its any good for socials/ dating apps?
Wouldn't normally care but she is a 10. I'm assuming a hostile response is still better than no response.
I don't want to sound butthurt but I also don't want to sound too forgiving. Something along the lines of "Disappointing but I understand. We can do next weekend but make sure you wear something cute"
