Comments by john cairns

Ok, I'm at this stage now, which isn't great. I was thinking I would wait till after her diss is due and maybe try to reignite it as she has probably been doing that. But also like is there any point as she showing as not interested. The only thing that could save it is that I know of her, so I could say that "I swear I know of you, do you know XYZ", or can go with something along the lines of how her diss hand in went and go down the route of saying we got to have celebration drinks.

Let me know, thanks for your input

Ok ok, I waited it out and gave her another shot on Friday there and I got a good response, thanks for that James. Think I'm gonna continue the chit chat for a wee bit and drop a hint of getting a drink together or meeting up by saying something like - do you like wine? or something later in our convo and see how she responds to that. Thoughts?

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How would you follow up with that? Like with that "guess what" part. Not used it before, thanks.

Yeah, I agree with you. I thought I was being smooth or slick, but kind of the opposite. Is this savable? After four days, any ideas on opening it, like should I ignore my last message or address it?