Quick logistics question
Would you do a mini takeaway (this is a regular FWB I see), as in "that sucks, if tomorrow doesn't work we can do another day"?
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Would you do a mini takeaway (this is a regular FWB I see), as in "that sucks, if tomorrow doesn't work we can do another day"?
(I edited this for better clarity and more purpose) Just had a tinder date at this sexy 32 year old milfs house. The date started out well with lots of sexual tension. About an hour or so in, I said "I don't really like one night stands, the sex usually isn't that great". She gave me a smirk and disagreed, that sometimes she's had great one night stand sex. This threw me off completely and I think it all went downhill from there. I believe her sexual confidence intimidated me and exposed my sexual insecurities - this girl knew what she wanted. There was lots of touching and then a brief makeout. I pulled back on the first makeout like I always do to build up tension and she came in for another small kiss. Another 30 min to an hour went by and I went in again and this time she seemed closed off, her lips didn't even open. I gave up after that. It never escalated from there and the sexual tension died off. I admit, she was extremely fun to talk to about a wide range of topics so I got carried away in the conversation (this never happens to me). I stayed at her place semi cuddling and talking with her from 8pm - 1:30am. I never made it about us and didn’t turn her on verbally. Yes, I understand this is likely done, however, should I sexually DHV over text - get her aroused - pitch massage, talk about what i’ll do to her and perhaps she'd be down for another meet?
Met her on Hinge 3 weeks ago. We did a Facetime, then went on a walk and had sex. The sex was pretty good and afterward we cuddled for 30 min or so. While cuddling, she mentioned she'd have to head back home to feed her cats at some point. Then she asked me if I was tired multiple times. I eventually said yes, so she got dressed, I walked her out and told her to text me when she got home (it was pretty late and she had to drive 30 min). I attached the texting that ensued. To glean the lessons from this interaction, I'd like to know what I could have done better: Should I have offered to let her stay over?(I know Alex mentions this increases his chances of retention in the product) Should I have made more of an effort to bang again despite being tired? (Alex also states this helps with retention) Was it a mistake to wait 4 days to reach out again? Would love some outside perspective, thanks.
I’ve been running into an inordinate amount of conversations that die out at various stages on Tinder and Hinge. I’ve posted some examples for reference. I’d love a critique of where I am going wrong. Also, I find that my match rate has declined drastically over the past week. I created my profiles at the beginning of Rona season so perhaps the well has run dry? Should I create new profiles and delete my current ones? Thanks!
Context: Tinder girl, we were supposed to Facetime last Friday, but she bailed cause she was on shrooms lol Anyway, I reengaged her this past Tuesday and she was triggered by the voice memo I sent: "Hey, I’m doing great, and that sounds fantastic, I’m jealous, joshua tree is one of my favorite places, but gaylen, how about you tell me about it over FaceTime, for all I know your a russian hacker trying to steal my identity” She didn't get the joke. I wanted to send her another empathetic text tomorrow as a last hurrah since she's pretty hot. Something to this effect: "Look, I totally understand where you’re coming from and I'd be frustrated too... the actual reason I asked that is that something bad happened to me a few months ago and now I’m extra cautious. It’s not personal. You seemed pretty cool." Thoughts?
Hey guys, I watched Nitin's video with Surgical pickup and I'm using his sexualizing advice. Since Im a complete newbie, can someone help me close this one? THANKS in advance :) My concern atm is how to build more comfort and not go for the meetup too fast, or should I just go for it?
I've never done BDSM, don't know much about it. But I took Alex's advice and put dominant on my profile. Somehow I landed upon an unsuspecting BDSM chick and I'm not sure how to proceed. She alluded to having equipment at home, though I'm uncertain if it's sarcasm. Do I need to purchase any gear, and is she going to expect that I know certain etiquette and guidelines? Help a newbie out :) Any advice and criticism welcome. Messages are labeled in numerical order.