What could i have done better?
Been trying to hangout with this women for the last month. Every time i ask if a time and day works she went ghost so i called her out on it and now its wraps. What could i have done better?
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Been trying to hangout with this women for the last month. Every time i ask if a time and day works she went ghost so i called her out on it and now its wraps. What could i have done better?
Should I just charge this one to the game boys, or give her one more chance in a week or 2? I've had to reopen her four times, on the four time I hit her with the “if your not into this just let me know and I'll stop trying”
I met this girl i was classmates with at my old school at a bar last weekend and we were vibing pretty well, we started planning a ice cream date there since she gave me the im not a one not stand vibe. She was eyeing me the entire night and even told a mutual friend how much she liked me even tho we never really talked in class. She told me she did research on me (kinda weird) but it told me she was pretty interested so i took the more straight forward approach. She says she’s busy with senior week, but I don’t really know what it entails so I believe her, now im just tryna gauge whether or not i went about this correctly since Ive been in a relationship for the past 7 months. Appreciate all input!
One of those scenarios where she's pretty gets a lot of messages and sucks at responding. I know she's going to go ghost again, but im Trying to figure how to keep it engaging so she does it less frequently any ideas?
I’ve noticed when it comes to escalation and being calculated Craig Ferguson is the #1 dude to study. He always starts off with high energy then a compliment (intent) then a witty joke correlating to the compliment usually a sexual innuendo which disappates the pressure of the compliment, then asks a simple question. I believe this allows him to be able to use the silent stare that he’ll give girls after they say something borderline sexual further escalating the tension along with making her laugh allowing him to guide the conversation in a more sexual manner if he wants to or not. Actresses end up recommending his show causing more beautiful actresses to hop on and end up flirting with him further than he wanted. He acts the same way with everybody which gives him more Leeway than someone who chooses who they want to act that way with and don’t. on top of that he push, pulls more naturally than anyone I’ve ever studied. If you start out with a simple “how’s your day going” and proceed with normal conversation after that then out of nowhere just bring up the topic of sex it comes off uncalibrated and creepy like “where did that come from” but since he starts out the way he does and progressively gets more sexually aggressive the women eat it up. Just wondering what you guys on him?
Met this girl who also is a bartender at the bar I met her at. got her number, free apple juice, and another notch on the belt boys! Sometimes simple is best.
Built report at bar including heavy petting but been trying to get her out for weeks but she either goes ghost or flakes so I hit her with this. Was it too playful or should I just wait and be a little more empathetic
Met her at a bar and we made out so she’s invested, but every time I try to get her on a date she’ll say “ interesting proposition” or “I’ll take it into consideration” but every weekend she’ll double text me and ask what am I up to that night or if I want to go to the flats with her (club area in Cleveland) so I decided to say this and text her more detailed plans later I’m just curious to how you guys would approach said situation if you were in my shoes cause I’m not use to her behavior
She double texted me after I thumbed up her Nvrm comment and it seems like she’s upset ab something I did but idk what should I just text her in a day or two. We also ft the day prior and got pretty sexual but nothing extreme unless you wanna say her showing vids of her playing with herself and nudes extreme. I’m just confused here.( Told her I won’t be home for 2 weeks so I can’t go for the meet up and can only ft atm)