Where I Went Wrong: An Analysis
SUNDAY/MONDAY: Matched on OKC and started chatting. good messages back and forth about music, anime, being vegetarian, and dancing. TUESDAY: Suggested watching anime together... she said no due to COVID. So I suggested a more socially distanced date at the beach. She said that sounded great. I told her to text me and that I was getting my second vaccine but that I should be ready to go by the weekend. WEDNESDAY: Takes around 24 hours to text me, asks how my evening is going. I respond an hour later saying i’m all vaxxed up and eating a giant veggie burger, hbu? No reply. SATURDAY: More than 60 hours now with no reply. If she had never texted me after chatting on OKC I would just wait a week and try re-engaging. but the fact that she went out of her way to text me only to not respond is really puzzling to me. I was thinking I could re-engage by sending her a photo of the album I’m listening to on spotify with a flirty message like: “I can’t decide if this album is better for a beach bonfire dance party or for a backseat makeout session” I also thought of saying “Maybe I should spank you next time you make me wait ;)” but that might be coming out of nowhere since I didn’t bother to flirt earlier It’s possible that maybe a beach date seems too ambitious for her... so I don’t want to push for it again too soon. I also want to make sure I don’t come off too needy. in this situation, is it better to wait more than the usual 48 hours or should I send a message before the end of the day?