Cold Facebook DM Spiking Sexual Curiosity Need Feedback
Added as friend and cold facebook DM a girl. Tryna spike her sexual curiosity but eventually she stopped responding. What could I have done better and what can I send from here?
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Added as friend and cold facebook DM a girl. Tryna spike her sexual curiosity but eventually she stopped responding. What could I have done better and what can I send from here?
To stay away from the unbearably cold weather in Canada, I’ve been chilling in Taiwan since November. After dinner on Friday night I decided to daygame for a little bit. I went to a supermarket nearby and started walking around. Not too long after, I spotted a 5’7 slender South-east Asian looking girl. Being a little nervous, I did not approach her immediately. Rather, I walked around for the next minute or so contemplating what I’m gonna say to her. When I got ready, I found her in the meat section looking at some meat and I walked up to her and opened with “不好意思,你會說中文嗎?”(“Excuse me, do you speak Chinese?) Me: “不好意思,你會說中文嗎?”(“Excuse me, do you speak Chinese?) Her: “一點點”(“A little bit.”) Me: “所以你不是台灣人?”(“So you’re not Taiwanese?”) Her: “不是”(“No”) At this point I realized her Mandarin wasn’t great so I asked her if she speaks English better. Me: “你是英文比較好還是中文比較好?”(“Are you better at English or Chinese”) Her: “英文”(“English”) At this point I decided to switch the conversation to English. Me: “Sounds like it’d be better if we talk in English.” Her: “Yes.” Me: “You look like you come from Vietnam.” Her: “No. I’m from Thailand.” Me: “Which part of Thailand are you from?” Her: She said a place in Thailand not far from Bangkok which I don’t remember. Me: “So how long have you been in Taiwan for?” Her: “2 years.” Her: “Where are you from?” Me: “Canada.” From here we continued the small talk. It turned out she’s doing her masters in a college nearby and is almost done with her degree. At one point the idea of ladyboy popped into my head. Although this chick definitely doesn’t look or sound like one, to be safe rather than sorry, I decided to tease out the fact. Me: “I’ve actually never been to Thailand.” Her: “You should go. It’s fun.” Me: “Is it? The only thing I know about Thailand is the ladyboys.” Her: “Yes, we have some ladyboys. They’re very pretty boys.” Me: “So how do you tell if someone is a ladyboy?” Her: “Uh...their voice are deeper than women.” Me: “Interesting. So how do I know if you’re a ladyboy or not?” Her: “Oh no I’m not a ladyboy.” Me: “Actually you know what, show me your hand.” She put her hand out at this point. Me: “Oh my god. You have such big hands. They are the same size as mine. (I put my hand and hers together as I said this.) Her: “No no no I’m not a ladyboy.” Me: “Let’s get out of this area. It’s way too cold here.” At this point I led her away from the meat section and we started walking together and continued the small talk. Me: “What’s your plan for tonight?” Her: “Mmm just grocery shopping and go back.” Me: “Really? No parties?” Her: “No.” Me: “You have such a boring life. We should make your life better.” ... Me: “Have you been to the night market nearby?” Her: “Yes of course. I’ve been here for two years.” Me: “I’m planning to check out the night market for a little bit later.” ... At one point her friend showed up and she introduced me to her friend. Her friend later turned out to be a beta Indian cockblock. Her: “This is my friend.” Me: “Hey how you doing.” Here I chatted with this Indian beta male for a little bit to see what he’s up to. ... Me: “So how do you feel about Taiwan?” Beta Friend: “So so.” Her: “lol just so so?” ... Me: (to beta orbiter)”So you’re her means of transportation?” Beta Friend: “Not really. I’m just her special friend. She calls me whenever she needs me.” Her: “lol special friend? no...” After some chitchat, I’m almost certain this guy is a beta orbiter. ... Me: “So how many girls have you got in Taiwan?” Beta Friend: “None.” Me: “No wonder you think so-so about Taiwan.” ... At one point I tried pulling but I have to admit my game was not tight enough and I could only resort to a number close. Her: “Can I have your suggestion on which one is better?”(shows me two bags of different oranges) Me: (pointing to one of them)”I’d go with this one because it’s better for ladyboy.” ... Beta Friend: “I have to go soon.” Me: (to the girl)”We’ll let him go first and I’ll give you a ride home after.” Her: “But I have plans tomorrow.” Beta Friend: “She doesn’t go on stranger’s car.” Me: (to the girl)”That’s cool. Do you have facebook?” Her: “Yea.” Me: (to the girl)”Cool, do you have your phone with you?” Her: “Yea.” ... Facebook wasn’t successful so I ended up getting her line which is the most popular messaging app in Taiwan. This was the end of the in person interaction with this chick. In my text conversation with her, I tried building curiosity and sexualizing but I’m sure most of my texts are uncalibrated and half-ass. In deed, texting is one of my weakest spots. As a result, I haven’t been able to set up a meet. Gonna need some help with texting to get this chick out and close.
Hot 18-year-old blonde makeup artist with blue eyes Tuesday, April 9th, 2019 TL;DR Key mindsets I have when approaching/throughout the interaction: -I’m a sex god and I bang any hot girl whenever I want; staying outcome independent -I’m the prize; is she good enough for me -She wants and needs sex badly and I’m the one who decides if she gets to have sex with me. -I come, I see, I conquer. -Promoting Asian Male Awareness, one girl at a time Take away lesson: -Stay goal oriented; don’t get dragged off the straight line easily. -Never take rejection personally. -Deal with objections preemptively. -Connection gets me far, sexualization gets me laid. UMP’s sexualization techniques work. -Pick up is a skill and a number’s game. -Skip class/work and daygame Concepts solidified: -Women are horny creatures; there’s no such girl as comfort girl; it only takes the right man to turn them on. -Sexualizing the interaction could be the best way to really “connect” with the girl. -It’s a number’s game. Detailed Breakdown I was on my way to a class that I didn’t really feel like going. So I decided to daygame instead. I went to the eaton centre, a major shopping mall in downtown Toronto and started walking around. I wasn’t expecting to see a flood of crowd as it was around 3:30pm in the afternoon and most people had work still. But I was surprised to find quite a few people and hot chicks walking around. I was on the escalator going after another girl when I spotted in the other direction this hot blonde with blue eyes, standing about 5’5 in heels, dressed stylishly in all black dolled up with glamorous make up. Exactly my type. I changed my mind immediately and went after this hot blonde. My first thought was she must be working at one of the cosmetic shops at the mall. However, I realized she seemed to be looking for some place in the mall as she was looking at her phone and looking around, holding seemingly documents in her hand. Open That was my chance so I followed her down the escalator and went in right away with “Can you take a picture for us?” Me: “Can you take a picture for us?” Her: ”Sure” Me: “Can you take a picture with us?” Her: “...” Me: “Oh I was just wondering...wait...do you speak English?” Her: “yea yea” Vibing At this point she was confused as to why I was talking to her. I explained that I was waiting for my friend and was in a social mood and I started cold reading her and shooting the shit with her. Basically I used a couple of open loops and some teasing/bantering/trolling. It’s important at this stage of the interaction to screen for emotional&logistical availability. Me: “You don’t look very Canadian. I’m guessing you’re Russian.” Her: “Yea I get that a lot.” .. Me: “You look photogenic.” .. Me: “So what are you up to now?” Her: “Oh I’m just giving out some resumes.” .. Her: “I’m gonna apply to some modelling agencies.” Me: “I have a couple of friends who work at next model management. One of my friend is a former miss teen Indian actually.” .. Me: “Women who dress in all black are usually ambitious, career oriented women.” .. Me: “Guess what my sign is?” Her: She guessed a few but I refrained from telling her and switched topic. Me: “Have you ever had bubble tea?” Her: “Yea.” Me: “How do you like bubble tea?” Her: “I like it.” Me: “Cool, what’s your favourite bubble tea shop?” Her: “I forgot the name but there’s one nearby actually.” A few minutes in and now she was getting more comfortable talking to me. It turned out that she was on her way to give out her resume to a few different stores in the mall. At this point I knew it was time to either pull or set a date and get a phone number. I decided to pull. Pull When it comes to pulling, I usually make the girl comply to the smallest, easiest request first and progressively ask for bigger compliance. Me: “Just so I don’t waste your time, why don’t we take a walk?”(minimizer & tonality inspired by Jordan Belfort) Her: “Ok.” We started walking. As we walked, I started to get to know more about her origin. She said she’s half Métis and half Syrian but she looks completely white. I joked about her being an Albino. She went on to hand out her resume to a hair salon as I waited outside. We continued walking to the bubble tea shop she mentioned. I told her that it wasn’t authentic and that I know an authentic bubble tea shop nearby. We started walking upstairs toward the exit of the mall and I made her guess my country of origin on the way. To my surprise, she succeeded after a few hints. We got out of the mall and she said she had to hand out her resume to the Shopper’s drug mart across the street. I went with it and told her we’ll get bubble tea after that. We went to the bubble tea shop afterward and I got a small classic pearl milk tea. She decided she didn’t want any. At this stage of the interaction I started to make her qualify herself, solidifying the prizing frame and make her chase. Me: “So as you know pretty faces are nothing but common in the modelling industry. You really need to have something different in order to stand out. Tell me what’s your talent?” Her: “I wrote a children’s book on autism with my mom.” .. Me: “I really like how you are an attentive person. Too bad you’re not my type.” Instadate After the bubble tea, we started walking back toward eaton centre. At this point I wasn’t completely sure how I should lead the interaction. At the back of my head I knew I needed to somehow get her back to my place or to her place in order to close. My place wasn’t an option because it’s over an hour away and I live with parents. During the walk to get bubble tea I found out that she lives in a student residence nearby. The only possibility now was going to hers. But I wasn’t sure if I had enough compliance from her at that point to just go to her place. I decided to play it safe and suggested that we went to the food court of eaton centre and chatted there. At this stage of the interaction I wanted to plant in her mind that I’m a sexual authority and to build enough curiosity and compliance that we go back to her place after. I achieved these by revolving the conversational threads around her past relationships, women’s sexuality and sexual fantasies, with some comfort building here and there by talking about each other’s background, upbringing, etc. Some key lines I used here are: Her: “I’ve only been in Toronto since September last year.” Me: “How are the guys in Toronto treating ya so far” Her: “They’re nice. Some guys are super awkward though.” Then she started talking about this guy she went on a tinder date with. Me: “Cool, so what’s your best and worst tinder experience?” Her: She talked about how some guys rushed into sex and whatnot. On the other hand, the two serious relationships she had so far were also from Tinder, first a Chinese and then a Korean. Me: I saw a chance to demonstrate my sexual authority here so I went along with it and say “Yea sadly a lot of men think they’re good at sex and they understand women and whatnot but they’re really not. Also a lot of men are selfish in thinking that sex is about their pleasure and not the woman’s. Sadly this leaves a lot of women sexually frustrated. I was once like most guys but I’ve changed considerably since I met a couple of friends who are experts in understanding women. For example, one of my friends wrote this guide on how to eat pussy properly and give women multiple oral orgasms. We nicknamed him the pussy eating champ.” .. Me: “So I’m just curious, what’s the most number of orgasms you’ve had in one session.”(using Jordan Belfort’s disarming tonality to set a judgement free vibe and take pressure off) Her: “I haven’t had one yet.” Me: “Oh I’m sorry for you. Guess we’ll have to keep in mind not to treat you too rough first. For girls who are relatively inexperienced, I usually start them off with 10-15 orgasms.” I’m saying these all while keeping her compliance threshold and buying temperature in check. .. Me: “I know for a fact that women love sex. It’s however so unfair that guys who sleep with a lot of women are viewed as casanova but girls who sleep with a lot of guys are viewed as sluts.” Here I was focusing on getting the non-judgemental frame across so I wasn’t too concerned about whether she reacted to this or not. .. Me: “Stop looking at me like that.” Her: No reaction Me: “Stop looking at me like you want to kiss me.” Her: “What?” Me: “I actually kinda like it, but I prefer to take things slow ok?” Then I proceeded to talk about mundane stuff. .. Me: “Are you a good kisser?” Her: “I don’t know.” Me: “If you’re in kissing school, how will your teacher grade you?” Her: “I don’t know.” Me: “Well, there’s only one way to find out.” I sensed at this point she wasn’t ready to kiss for whatever reason. However, she didn’t mind my hands running up and down her back and thighs, lightly pulling her hair. From my experience I knew I had achieved enough compliance threshold and it was time to pull again. .. Me: “Now that we finished the bubble tea, why don’t we go take a walk outside?” Her: “Yea sure.” We packed up and started walking toward the exit of eaton centre. As we were walking, the girl started to ask me what I’m doing for a living, what’s my living situation, etc. I managed to balance the right amount of truth telling and building intrigue. Close She talked about how she has bad memory earlier. As we were close to the exit of eaton centre, I used that to challenge her. Me: “I bet you don’t remember your way back to your residence.” Her: “I do.” Me: “There’s really only one way to find out.” We got out of eaton centre. Me: “So where do you go from here?” Her: “Straight.” Me: “That’s what she said.” We started walking toward her place. On our way, she asked me where I live. I kept it an open loop. As we got to the outside of her building: Me: “Why don’t we just go up and have a drink for 15 minutes and then I’ll have to go." Her: “Yea if you want to.” Her: “You do need your ID in order to sign in though.” Me: “Not a problem.” We got up to her place on the 15th floor and took our shoes off. She started to look for some of her stuff that she thought was missing. Fortunately she found them shortly after. I then asked her to put on some music and she did. We went through some of her make up work then we sat down on her couch and started chatting. At one point I told her I wonder how good of a kisser she is. This time she gave me a clear objection that she wasn’t sure what the zit I had on my mouth was. I told her it was just a pimple. She was worried that it might be something else. She shared a story of her getting sick after having sex and getting worried that she might have contracted HIV; and it turned out she was clean after she got tested. I then shared a similar story and how I was clean after getting tested. I reassured her that it’s just a pimple because I’m still young. She laughed. Me: “We’re not gonna have sex though.”(It’s crucial to deal with objections preemptively.) Me: “Can you stand up for me? I want to see how tall you are.” She stood up. I got close to her. Me: “How much do you weight?” Her: “97 lbs.” Me: “Really.” Her: “Yea I’m pretty light.” Me: “Can you squat 97 lbs?” Her: “I don’t know.” At this point I picked her up, moved her close to the bed and tossed her on the bed. Me: “Have you ever done martial arts?” Her: “I did karate.” I then started talking about Brazilian jiu jitsu. I showed her a few positions in BJJ and got her to try to escape from the side control position. To my surprise, she was much stronger than I expected. She caught me off guard and escaped successfully. I held my ground and controlled the frame. Me: “You’re actually the first girl who’s ever escaped from my side control. But the real question is, do you really want to escape?” She laughed. Me: “I thought so.” I went in for the make out and it was on. Sex She’s a submissive barbie doll in bed. I spanked her while we were making out. This girl impressed me with her tongue skills. She has a very soft and bouncy tongue which I love. I made her suck my dick while choking her. I then fucked her in missionary, dirty talked to her, made her call me big daddy. Then I fucked her in doggy style while pulling her hair hard and spanking her. She was moaning all over. Then she rode me in cowboy while I watched her titties bounce up and down. After that we did 69. I fucked her in missionary again after. Then I made her ride me on the couch. Then I got her on her knee and suck my dick. Then I spit into her mouth and made out with her. After that I started fingering her/eating her out. Here’s my current sticking point, I’m not able to make every woman cum consistently. I’ve been trying John Anthony’s method and David Swift’s method but they don’t always work for me. I’m pretty sure I’m doing some things wrong here. This particular girl, I didn’t bother asking if she cummed or not. We went into her residence at around 5pm and when I checked the clock again it was 11:28pm. Another downside was that I wasn’t able to cum for whatever reason. But a lay is a lay regardless. Post Sex Interview Me: “At what point did you realize that we were gonna have sex?” Her: “After we went back down to the food court.” Me: “After I started to be more genuine with you?” Her: “Yea.” Me: “What was your impression when you first saw me?” Her: “I thought of you as a fob(fresh off the boat). I thought you’re one of those crazy people.” Me: “At what point did you start to like me sexually?” Her: “When you started talking about multiple oral orgasms and stuff I got curious.” Me: “So it didn’t bother you that I was talking about sex a lot?” Her: “At first it did but then I just got curious.” Me: “So what makes you like Asian guys so much?” Her: “I feel like I relate to their culture more. I like Asian men’s mannerisms better than white guys’.” I wanted to take a picture with her post sex but she really didn’t want to and pushed my phone away while swearing. So I gave in and didn’t take a picture post sex. We both got dressed and went downstairs. I said goodbye to her and went off my way.
In the process of coming up with a Tinder/Bumble profile. The attached are the potential pictures. Would appreciate some help narrowing them down to the right pictures and orders. Some additional info about me are: Location: Toronto, Canada Ethnicities of girls interested in: White, Latina, Middle Eastern, Mixed