Before I ask, let me explain a role play partner: One person acts as the girl/guy being approached, and one person asks as the seducer. The goal is for the seducer to practice their approach before going out and doing it live. Also, you two can brainstorm solutions to problems where you fell short in an approach the next day. People in sales professions know this well. Pickup is sales, essentially.
I’m looking for someone to practice with maybe once or twice a week. I’m in Eastern Time in the US, but I’m open to people from anywhere within America
I know my opener wasn’t good. When she said “cat!”(I have my cat in a photo) then what in your opinion should I have said next? Also any suggestions on what to say to her last response?
Thanks guys.
I met this girl at a school function and almost slept with her, but she backed out last minute and has basically gone cold. We text with 24 hour delays in between texts now about random shit(usually her pets). I want to meet her again, any good ideas for texts to send? Haven't talked about a second date because she said she's "busy with finals" a week ago.
Here’s the pictures: https://imgur.com/a/f5Nx6xy
P.S. I know I messed up multiple times in the interaction.
I want to do direct cold approaches(hey I thought you were cute and I wanted to say hi) at a local community college that I do not attend. I instead go to a university which is in the same city. Any advice on how to frame being on campus with girls? In the past with my few attempts I’ve said I’ve been visiting a friend. Any advice is appreciated!
Hi, I'm a college student and I meet a lot of new girls on campus. They aren't direct cold approaches usually, oftentimes I meet them in the library.
Situation 1:
Met her in the library on Monday, we had a study date on Wednesday where I just flirted and spiked her emotions, but there was also a lot of logical conversation about school and careers. We have a date planned this Saturday evening at an arcade near my apartment. I don't really know what to text her in the meantime, should I do anything at all? Or just a confirmation text Friday before the date?
Situation 2:
Met her at a coffee shop on campus on Monday, and we planned a coffee date Friday night on campus. Logistics aren't the best because I live 20 min away from campus, however she lives on campus. Heavy IOIs from her, although no escalation because we were sitting in the middle of a coffee shop. Should I try to move the date to a coffee shop off campus and pick her up? Also, how can I improve the text?
Situation 3:
I went on a date yesterday with this girl to an ice cream shop then we walked around a mall. I made out with her for 15 secs or so before dropping her off at home. Was this the right kind of message to send afterwards?(Approx 12 hours after). We are meeting Thursday and most likely having sex.
Situation 4(no picture):
Today I met a girl at a fast food joint on campus. I asked if I could sit at her booth and she said sure. We talked for 20 mins and I did good I think, but she wasn't hooking too much. We set up a potential date to study together tomorrow on campus. Any advice on what to text? I want to communicate my intent but not come on too strong, because I'll probably see her again.
I'm in college now and I meet a lot of girls on my campus. Most are in my classes or I meet at the food court. While I'm talking with them, the problem is taking them a relationship from student-student to boy-girl and getting it flirty. It's easy to close by just saying "We should grab coffee later this week" or something but those dates usually aren't as sexually charged as Tinder dates, and have a lower close rate. I'm thinking about adding questions into my routine to get a girl to open up about relationships more. These are my thoughts:
-(If she is from a different city) How do guys here compare to guys in (city she used to live)?
-(If she is from another city) Have you dated guys from (Cityname) before?
-What have your relationships with the guys here been like?
-I've heard that girls here are (stereotype), is that true?
-I've heard that guys here are (stereotype), is that true?
With these questions, I can go into her emotions more and get off the logical 'getting to know you' questions. What do you think?
I met this girl in one of my classes. She’s much older than I am, but there was still a little tension between us in person. I also look a lot older so that helps. Anyways, I texted her out of the blue today asking about a test we just took to break the ice. Pics are below.
Is there anything that you would do differently?
I have a problem escalating via text with girls who I meet at campus. One of the problems is I feel like they can’t make the jump between this guy in class to sex partner who you’re meeting at my apartment. Any suggestions?
I’ve had sex with this girl like 3 months ago. I’m great at sex IMO and she wants it again. I know that I’ll get the date, but I want to flirt more and build tension before setting it up. Do you guys have any advice on this?
