Comments by Desi Jedi

I have been in the community from the start. I was always very needy sweet, trying to win girls over. At first, when PWF Members would suggest me to go sexual, I would hesitate A LOT. But I read all their Lay Reports and thought maybe they know their stuff and started sending everything they gave me.

Soon, I had girls coming over constantly and I couldn't close because I didn't know how to. I would post Field Reports explaining everything. seeing a constant pattern Alex jumped on a live call with me and explained that I should be congruent and gave me pointers on how to lead and maintain eye contact, build tension.

Since then, it was always a done deal, the community helped me get my SMV higher, the texts were always sexual directed towards hookup and I would have girls come over for hookup and since i would have insane value in her eyes and sexual frame, I just went with the pointers and started closing.

A had a few mind blowing experiences, main being you can always sexualize a conversation. If you do it properly, without rushing or being incongruent, the girl will always love it and be her sexual genuine self.
I also realized the only window these girls have in your life is the window you show them. So you have the power to frame your life as you want to. If you're working as a bartender, don't say you're a bartender, say you're insanely passionate about xyz and you love it, you're pursuing that, but to pay the bills you took up bartending to party hard, spend time with my homies and have fun while I am pursuing my passion of xyz. This reframe will change her perception instead of using "I am a bartender".

I also learned how to be more congruent, witty and keep the conversation more engaging and fun. A lot of girls tell me, they had the most fun talking with me because I stood out with my direct, forward approach and the funny sexual banter.

The community is extremely helpful, over 100s of love reports, mostly covering all aspects of situations, objection handling and maintaining your frame.

I will have to dig to find the old screenshots since I have changed couple of phones since 2018, but what really helped was having the community always helping you out.
Eventually your mind starts picking things up and you understand the psychology behind messages and why it works and why the girls get horny and come over to fuck.

Nothing. Last message was on July 4th saying what Alex told me to send.

How do you differentiate between a banter and a girl just making fun of you?
I don't have an example because tinder got banned but you can't get the tonality via message.

Also how'd you banter on text and if she's trying to make fun of you how would you turn into a funny banter.

I was thinking to make her qualify with something like:
"Well, I am hoping you're not like my last two dates" and she asks about them and I'd say
"Just basic blonde nanny girls" so she qualifies herself with something else?

You're right, I missed the obvious signs she was with friends and should've just planned or the next day date. Gotta read the messages before jumping on it.

Thanks!

She's still there, didn't unmatch.
Should I start over again with
'Seems like someone had an interesting night?' or 'Still hungover?' or 'Hey trouble'

I don't know if I should apologize and start the conversation again or just ignore it like it never happened.

I was thinking of going with
'The things I would do to that booty ;)'
Get her to ask and then sext?

I have lost so many girls because of the 1 day thing, i had to buy the premium.

i dd a few times but they dont respond and i test the waters a few days later replying to their story and they revert back.
Like again none of these girls have a friend frame with me. What i did notice is some of them its only like meetup talks, so i am tryng to go back
get some investment and make them qualify and then invite them out first and pull.

Makes sense. Once I get the attention I'll try the famous Jeff wine sequence again and see how it goes. Thanks!