Definitely re-engage. I find it interesting though that you didn't stick to the original line of being honest and got side tracked with her own question.
Definitely re-engage. I find it interesting though that you didn't stick to the original line of being honest and got side tracked with her own question.
"So what are you passionate about?"
You messed up by talking about the date (which itself was a good text) but then you double messaged with the stuff about dirty talk. That was too soon. You should have waited for her to express interest in the date.
Hi Jacob,
Bio: separate the dj'ing from jujitsu. What type of music? You play on clubs or bedroom? Make more of this trait. I'd delete the apartment location as it's basically saying (implicitly) "So we can go back to mine and fuck". What are you studying? Put that. I'd also insert something controversial (Todd V has a video on this). You need more hooks to give her something to engage with.
Photos: you're attractive but the photos are brutal. Ditch the selfies and buy a tripod for your phone. The shirtless one would be way better if you just had a solid color background, for instance.
If you can scrape together £50-100 I'd invest in a professional photographer. You have the looks but your pics are like every other guys on the app.