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I'm thinking about taking it. Would love to know what your experience was if you have! Feel free to PM me if don't want to make public. Thanks!
Thinking of taking it. Would love to know what you though either publicly or privately. Thanks!
Question #1: 1) Should I keep mirroring her response time? 2) Should I call it out? If so, then what do you think of something like "Hey, I understand that maybe you've had some bad experiences in the past being too eager. So maybe this is why we're treating text like email with the response times. If you ever want to just text normally, I'm down for that too ;)" Here's a breakdown of the response time: ME: Sat 4:31pm {1st text after transitioning from Hinge}: (7h 26m) ME: Sat 11:57pm {double text with “🤔”} ME: Sun 11:53am {still not having received a reply, I message her from Hinge} (21h 35m from initial text) HER: Sun 2:05pm (1h 24m) ME: Sun 3:29pm (7h 26m) HER: Sun 10:55pm (23h 49m) ME: Mon 10:44pm (24h 5m) HER: Tues 10:49pm ++++++++++ Question #2: How to reply to her last text (see screen shots): My thinking: ME: I have a better idea HER: what’s that? ME: we split a bottle of wine at my place. No corona crowds, comfortable, warm, wine HER: {corona objection} ME: No need to worry about it with me. I’ve been double vaxxed, plus I already had corona end of November. CDC says almost no chance of me being a carrier
Question #1: 1) Should I keep mirroring her response time? 2) Should I call it out? If so, then what do you think of something like "Hey, I understand that maybe you've had some bad experiences in the past being too eager. So maybe this is why we're treating text like email with the response times. If you ever want to just text normally, I'm down for that too ;)" Here's a breakdown of the response time: ME: Sat 4:31pm {1st text after transitioning from Hinge}: (7h 26m) ME: Sat 11:57pm {double text with “🤔”} ME: Sun 11:53am {still not having received a reply, I message her from Hinge} (21h 35m from initial text) HER: Sun 2:05pm (1h 24m) ME: Sun 3:29pm (7h 26m) HER: Sun 10:55pm (23h 49m) ME: Mon 10:44pm (24h 5m) HER: Tues 10:49pm ++++++++++ Question #2: How to reply to her last text (see screen shots): My thinking: ME: I have a better idea HER: what’s that? ME: we split a bottle of wine at my place. No corona crowds, comfortable, warm, wine HER: {corona objection} ME: No need to worry about it with me. I’ve been double vaxxed, plus I already had corona end of November. CDC says almost no chance of me being a carrier
Hey everybody - I can’t tell from this girl’s photos if she’s attractive enough for me to want to continue towards the meetup. Any advice on how to proceed now that she’s given me her number and the next step is to transition to text? I tried her # on Facebook and Google search. I also input it into TrueCaller (a website used to identify unknown numbers). I realize I could still reverse image search her Hinge photos, but I want to give the private investigator shtick a rest and hopefully learn something instead. Any suggestions on the best way to smoothly transition to getting her social media?
It's been 3 days since my last message so I'm assuming one more message is a better option than just forgetting it, but what do you think?