Nearly going Black pill
Hi guys, Not sure if this is the best forum to post this, but I’m feeling pretty defeatist about the whole dating scene lately. I’m 29, 5'8", and in decent shape. I use Hinge and get a lot of matches, but for some reason, they never seem to go anywhere. I’d rate myself a 6/10—not the worst-looking guy at all—but I just don’t get this dating game anymore. I match with a lot of girls, we start chatting, and then they just disappear. We move to texting, and then they ghost or stop replying altogether. We even make plans to go on dates, and then they go quiet or cancel last minute. I don’t mind rejection—it’s a normal part of dating. But what I don’t understand are the women who lead you on. Why give me your number if you’re not going to reply? Why make plans and then cancel without a word? It’s really starting to mess with my confidence, and I’m just looking for some advice or insight from anyone who’s been through something similar. How do you handle this kind of situation? I have attached my hinge pics. Thanks for any advice.