Comments by Robert James

Haha for sure. I’ll give it a whirl. Dunno how’s it’s gonna hit 1.5 weeks later but better than nothing.

Thanks!

She’s most definitely shown multiple times to be flakey so can’t use that one and I’ve already kinda used the nervous thing as I’ll show in a screenshot of where we were at before I threw the Hail Mary. If you have any other ideas/suggestions for a last ditch text I’m open.

Appreciate you taking the time to respond

-Rob

Hit her with: "Work went well so it was a good one. Now just at the gym getting fit for our date ;). Hbu?"

Hopefully that was ok. Beginning part of message was in reference to Friday

Don’t have one. Staying in shitty air bnb. Bit too far fetched for me to want to use

Seems a bit early to be assuming the date given she just ghosted me and isn't super investing?? Or am I wrong on this one?

I agree with pancake here. You can say hey or hi and just go with what you want to say

Np! Thank you for the realness. You say get the convo going again before locking in a day and time on those days. Our plans were tentatively for the week of the 2nd so I would like to find out what's good not too late in the game. Any suggestions on some things you might say before locking in day/time? I hadn't planned on messaging anything other than meetup logistics next. Her second time using the hush emojis/this msg theme when I use sexual callbacks is slightly perplexing. I don't know if she's worried I might say the wrong thing at wrong time from her anti-slut defense perspective/if there's some other hidden message being conveyed, or if I'm reading too much into it and it's just more playful/doesn't mean anything. Also thinking she's ghosted me twice now and so many ways to lose while texting that it might be more prudent to minimize the amount of texts to meetup lmao

I would be interested to see what responses you get as well. I'm not great at dealing with these spots as I'm not entirely sure how to handle them. Btw, you tried to blur out her name but it still says you matched w/**** unobstructed right below haha.

I might make a joke like: Respect your elders; address me properly. It's: "daddy" may I please sit on your face

You could potentially riff of that a little and then immediately start moving into closing sequences - do you like wine... etc

I ended up sending her a picture of my nephew playing with some golden wire that was on a bottle of wine saying: My nephew was playing with the gold wire on the bottle and it reminded me of you on the 4th fire emoji Sly face emoji (she had this golden wire she was wearing on her while in a bikini, when she undressed in the hotel room, she was like maybe ill keep this on ;) ;) )

She responded within an hour with : Hahahahha hushh shh face emoji shh face emoji laughing crying emoji

This is relatively low investment on her part. I'm thinking of just waiting a few days and then reopening her with a text asking if she's more free on week or weekend and then trying to nail down plans and kinda bailing on keeping her warm through text until then for the most part. Reasonable approach? Thanks for all the help so far and I'm always shouting you out when talking to guys about online or text game!

Fair enough. Thanks for the reply :)