Hello,
This girl works in a very large convenience store which I visit once a week, so I spoke to her a few times (shopping).
Tuesday, she served me and she mentioned that she doesn't celebrate Xmas this year because she became single and there is no point celebrate Xmas alone.
I got the hint, so I asked her out for a drink next days, she enthusiastically said sure and we exchanged numbers. She mentioned that this week she is free Thu and Fri.
WhatsApp TEXT (translation):
TUESDAY
18:40 me: "Hi Iza, nice to meet you today :) are you always so friendly to the new guys?"
THURSDAY
12:10 me: "...?"
FRIDAY
18:00 her: "Hi, I'm friendly to everyone it doesn't matter. Sorry, I don't like exchanging meaningless messages, I rarely text back. Have a nice night"
Her WhatsApp was NOT active from our number exchange TUE till actually her response on FRI.
How respond to something like that?
Cheers.
UPDATE She wants to meet halfway (not at her place). See comment screenshot
Hello, I got the number of this girl from the Daygame. Text from Friday to Sunday, she agreed to meet up but said that she won't meet at my home town.
Q1: How to continue this convo to make her meet up in my town?
Q2: For future reference: What to text when a girl says that she is available in 6-7 days in advance, (as in this case).
Cheers.
Story: Daygame approach # in the food store. I tried to set up a meeting date during the approach but she said to text her plus "I'm a flexible girl". She said that she works nights as a supervisor at Amazon. She is online on Whatsapp only like once every day/two days.
How to further approach this situation or she is a time-waster? (screenshot attached)
Context: During my work trip, took the number of cute, shy, tattoos over hands coffee shop girl, after short conversation. I noticed to her that she behaves timid but I know she has very wild side when she opens up. She agreed that it is exactly her. She told me that she leaves in that City. Took her number as a plan to have a drink during a week. In two days I was going to spend another day in that city which is 200 miles from my base.
The text conversation is within 48h and the day after I was staying in that City for a day.
Please feedback and point the visible mistakes, (what would be better respond to her text about me being over confident)
(translation from non English language)
`Me: Hello Julia, nice to meet you today :) Raf
Her: :)
Me: Hello trouble
Me: if you shy, I will understand
Her: No I am not shy. But You are probably over confident. ;)
Me: Confidence is the result of successes and experience
Her: Non in every situation being over confident is something good. But if this helped You get some experience i get some success congratulations.
Me: I believe in the Law of Attraction, that being positively confident attracts similar energy together. And You?
Her: And I regardless believe that being positively confident TOO MUCH is not good. It is known that everyone wants get in life as much as it can, and goes forward but we have to set limitations to ourselves
Her: Even if you do something good, positive, we need to know when to stop. Not let us get mad.
Me: Julia, if you don’t find me attractive I can stop trying? Sunshine You :)
Her: So You are trying to get something? ;) you should know that not only looks matter for me. As they say from good looking plate you won’t eat much, but from ugly one you don’t enjoy eating. Do you know this saying?
Me: You can only find out about this when you know/meet someone in person, Me too I worry if you are not secret feminist who waits for the possibility to poison a man, dismember i bury somewhere ;)
Her: Sometimes I want to do it ;) but you have to know one more thing. I am not looking for a boyfriend :)
Me: Great, we should split bottle of wine in my romantic apartment
Her: Great, Maybe one day. Before I have to finish cooking for my fiance in my mega romantic studio flat. Bye. Have a nice evening.
Me: What about a pint of beer in the pub ?`
