Why did she text me back like couple months/weeks later after rejecting me?
Is she being serious or not at all? Text #8 is where she texts back
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Is she being serious or not at all? Text #8 is where she texts back
We fucked during the night and she felt like she didn't feel like I like her or smth. Yes, I did give her multiple handprints on her ass. And we cuddled and slept for couple of hours and she left and like 5 am. and she kissed me goodbye on my lips and said "Don't miss me too much" After the date, I send her the text. "Last night was 🔥". she: "😊😊" she :"yeah it was pretty fun. Glad you had a good time" A day after that, she sends me a text like (not exact) "Hey, I just wanted to thank you for inviting me to stay for the night, but I didn't think I vibed with you pretty well. It's not you, but it seems like our preferences were a bit different in bed. I didn't think I felt the chemistry. I hope you find someone that you have chemistry with in the future." me: "Hey, if you think that I didn't like you, let me know, but I did have fun during the night and on the bed. Or if you're not interested in meeting up with me in the future, you can tell me that" I send her this text because I was unsure if she was not really into me or if she felt she wasn't wanted that night becuz she thought that I didn't cum. She: "I would want to meet up cuz you're pretty cute and stuff but I didn't get what I wanted. If I'm ever back in town I might hit you up to try again. But idk. I just wanted to get fucked harder and also am a sub lololol" Me: "When you come back or I go to __, I'll get the handcuffs ready and ..." . She: "Honestly, I just wanted you to thrust your hips faster and harder lololol. You were just not as fast or hard, [My actual name] " Me: "Don't worry. I'll bring my good cock next time ... and maybe my good fingers" No replies. How and when should I reengage this one? Don't want to reengage too soon becuz she'll be like why is the man so persistent or even needy for a girl thats far away. And don't want to reengage her too late cuz she'll be back in town and leave after i text her. My plan is prob to wait for 2 weeks (which is 2 weeks before she gets back to my city) and prob reengage "Yo sexy" or is this very likely over. Info that may be helpful: Before the date she called me and told me how I was a savage on text and through phone call. PS: This girl is my second priority not first btw, but I still want to have the possibility of meeting up with her again since she is super hot and cute. And this gives me the opportunity to improve my text game.
How to respond to this? Did I do anything wrong before like asking the meetup way too fast, or follow up in a poor way, etc?
We fucked last night and she felt like she didn't feel like I like her or smth. Yes, I did give her multiple handprints on her ass. And we cuddled and slept for couple of hours and she left and like 5 am. and she kissed me goodbye on my lips and said "Don't miss me too much" After the date, I send her the text. "Last night was 🔥". she: "😊😊" she :"yeah it was pretty fun. Glad you had a good time" A day after that, she sends me a text like (not exact) "Hey, I just wanted to thank you for inviting me to stay for the night, but I didn't think I vibed with you pretty well. It's not you, but it seems like our preferences were a bit different in bed. I didn't think I felt the chemistry. I hope you find someone that you have chemistry with in the future." me: "Hey, if you think that I didn't like you, let me know, but I did have fun during the night and on the bed. Or if you're not interested in meeting up with me in the future, you can tell me that" I send her this text because I was unsure if she was not really into me or if she felt she wasn't wanted that night becuz she thought that I didn't cum (though I did cummed a tiny bit since I might be suffering from a death grip). Then later, she responds and says "I would want to meet up cuz you're pretty cute and stuff but I didn't get what I wanted. If I'm ever back in town I might hit you up to try again. But idk. I just wanted to get fucked harder and also am a sub lololol" How should I respond to this to get her go from maybe to a certain Yes? Few things I have in mind right now: As a person who might be suffering from death grip syndrome, I prefer girls who put up a little bit of a challenge. Maybe they'll deserve to get fucked harder. Ohh I'll punish you again when you come back Oh I'll get the handcuffs and blindfolds ready when you're back I kinda want to see her again. Note that before these texts, I texted her like I was a dom and there was a lot of sexualizing. As a masochist who may be suffering from death grip syndrome, I like when girls put a little bit of challenge (fighting, etc) when having sex and while I'm dominating them. Is that trait truely incompatible with a submissive brat? And also please tell me how should I reply back to that text? Btw I am totally going to give up on masturbation to enjoy sex in the future. Sorry I don't provide you the text beforehand because I thought she was not going to respond to me so then I deleted all the message like I do as usual if a girl is not interested.
The girl is from another city and is thinking about coming to my place. What is the best response here? Is this a shit test or a concern? Btw was there anything I could've done better. Like should i just have been just like " you can stay at my place instead" at the beginning? (Btw i live at an apartment and she explicitly told me she is super DTF if any of that matters).