Make meet happen with this girl? Dude you good?
There are better options. Even if it did happen the whole frame was thrown off without a good way to bring it back (noting how she really is). She’s probably like that because of all the other thirsty guys playing it safe (that’s why is always good to not play it safe boys, especially from start).
He isn’t justifying actions, he’s calling her on her bullshit.
Edit: reading it again. Yes he does justify his actions for a bit and that’s bad. But towards the end it turns into calling her out.
