I would own it. "what's your favourite kind of wine?"
I would own it. "what's your favourite kind of wine?"
you're fanboying her. stop double texting. I would give it a rest, and talk to her casually at the gym. be cool!
invite her over and kiss her this then. She wants you to make the move - if the signs are there(between Alex's vids, and I think your natural instincts, you'll know) then go for it. good luck
alex has many videos on creating sexual tension and escalating it appropriately - they're worth watching.
did you guys have strong eye contact? break the touch barrier? have flirty banter? was she preening herself?
lol, what's your schedule like this week?
push logistics forward, ignore the shit test
"sounds like someone could use handsome company to cheer them up"
invite her on a date, and if the logistics don't work, accept it and move on. sounds like there's a decent chance you'll bump into her again one way or another.
The pics are alright. I think your profile pic gives off nice guy vibes, and in the waterfall pic you look smaller than the one in the gym. One thing you could do right now is edit the pictures - on an iPhone I find using the auto-edit filter and cropping them square produces good results. The photo quality will be higher, and you'll be better framed in the photo(lots of wasted space above your head is making you look less prominent in the marina pic). As a word of caution, girls know their photo filters inside and out. They can tell if a pic is doctored - enhancing the product versus distorting it is the goal.
If you can take a couple more photos doing things - cooking, working out(vs the mirror selfie), hiking, or skiing etc it would be good.
Is yours 100% off limits? Yours is the best bet. If it's absolutely a no-go, just be honest with her. It's going to make it harder, and a lot of girls will not be open to having a stranger in their place fwiw. She'll want to meet in a public place at minimum before inviting you over.
Alex has lots of good videos on what this means in texting. Check them out. Charisma on Command is another channel that will focus on this. At it's core, it's really about being laid back and relaxed in your interactions. When we're nervous or defensive(and not confident), we are far more sensitive and defensive. If you're confident, you're at ease in you're environment and operate on a higher frequency that allows us to laugh, have fun, and be present in the moment without being intense.
Leaning on a girl to invite you over isn't a good play until she's more comfortable with you. Especially when you're having bathroom trouble. The best chance you have of ever changing her mind is accepting what she's saying something to the effect of"ah I understand, if you change your mind, you have my number" and move on. Every now and then a girl will text you out of the blue, the key is not eliminating yourself now by acquitting yourself well to her rejection.