If you ever find yourself staring at your phone, wondering what to say next… you're not alone.
Most conversations die because people run out of things to say.
The easiest fix is asking better questions - ones that spark emotion or discussion instead of boring yes/no replies.
Here are some that work really well:
1) Are you from here originally?
This sounds super simple, but it works surprisingly well. Women generally love talking about their heritage. Most weren’t born where they are currently living, so there is a story there. But even if she is from there, you can follow it up by saying “ah wow, a local, you guys are rare ;)”
2) How’s your day going?
Sounds super boring, but all girls enjoy talking about their day. And most importantly, it leads to her asking about your day. This is good, because it allows you to use one of the best texts ever: “I’m good, just finished a big workout, looking nice & fit for our date”
3) What are you looking for on here?
This works especially well if you have a somewhat sexual profile. That increases the chance of the girl feeling comfortable enough to share the real answer, instead of the politically correct one she usually defers to. In addition, she will almost always add a “hbu?” to the end of her answer.
A good response is “To meet a cool girl I have chemistry with. Perhaps some kinky sex & cuddles”. One heads up, though, this primarily only works in North America and Western Europe. In Latin America or Asia, the default response will always be “friends.”
4) What is the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?
This is good because it can trigger a very flirty conversation. If she gives you a boring answer, you can tease her and say, “Ah, you can do better than that ;)” And she will almost certainly ask you the same question back. This is a good opportunity to set a sexual frame.
For example, “Does having sex on the beach and getting cockblocked by a fat security guard count?” You are adding humor to make it more socially acceptable. And best of all, this is going to make her feel comfortable enough sharing her sexual stories.
5) Do you like wine?
This is a two-part text. The majority of girls will respond with some variation of yes. This then allows you to follow up with “Good, we should split a bottle sometime soon”. This is actually the most optimal way to set up a date. You are creating a compliance ladder, which leads to a higher likelihood of a yes.
\*\*for more details, along with other good questions, read the full guide below\*\*
https://firetexts.com/questions-to-ask-a-girl-over-text/
