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I posted earlier about this girl I met. We ended up going out for a wine date and then back to her place and had sex. Screenshot is from day after. She was never a fast responder but after my last message hasn’t replied in about 24 hours. I was gonna wait another day and hit her up but did I oversexualize too fast even though we already hooked up? If so can this be saved?
I started working at a bougie nightclub recently and get 1-2 attractive girls numbers per night while working but I am having a problem with converting the number into a meetup for sex. I work late, and often the girls have left by the time im off. im unsure if I should be hitting them up same night when i get off, or as soon as I get the number, or if i should wait a few days and bring up something from when we met and try the old wine at my place move. I’m also unsure how flirty and direct i should be the girls are upper middle class for the most part and i cant help thinking they all want relationships when its prob not the case. does anyone have examples of conversations derived from situations like this or guide me on how to avoid creating the ltr vibe from the get go.
Got this girl’s number at a club. Couldn’t bring her home that night followed up a day later. She’s gonna be out of town til new years want to build some tension in the meantime. Suggestions what to say?
Met this girl st patricks day at a bar. Went home together and smashed all weekend. Through conversation she said she was going to be very busy this next weekend painting a mural so i let her have some space. Am I playing it right by not texting her all weekend or was her last text a missed opportunity to setup a soft close after she’s done?
Matched w a girl on Bumble, bantered back and forth and set what I thought was a good vibe. She texts me the next day saying its her day off and wants to meet up. I’m a work so tell her let’s meet up after at my house. She uses the serial killer objection and wants to meet in public which i reply to w the Lent rebuttal and tell her to meet up at a cafe close to me. She agrees and we meet up and split a bottle of wine and have a great conversation about our lives and some sexual vibing involving skinny dipping. We are touching each other a lot and by the end of the bottle are making out on the back patio and grabbing her ass. I invite her back to my house to go skinny dipping in my pool to which she replies that she knows where that will lead to and I didn’t know how to overcome it so she ends up leaving in her car but says she wants to come by after work one day to go skinny dipping before she left. It’s now the day after the date and I haven’t texted her or heard from her either. Is this a dead end or whats the best strategy here?