Paused it as soon as I matched with her couple days after u made a hinge account. Been trying to get her off the app for a month. She's been quite responsive and playfully and I seem to be passing her shit tests but she's dragging it out.
Last text I sent was: too nervous for a phone call?
If she doesn't respond thinking of sending this:
Thing is, if you drag out our love
and keep making me use this app
I might have to unpause my profile
Getting a tiny bit bored on here
Would this make me seem desperate?
For context I couldn't be bothered swiping and still cbf
Used the "you might be a 6ft 300pound Indian scammer"
Replies with: "yes that's what I am, you got me"
She's responding pretty frequently and I have sexualized alot without any objections but interest at the same time.
How can I respond in a flirty/sexual manner?
Have some ideas on what to reply but want to hear thoughts .
I've never heard this one before
Responds much faster than I'd excpect from someone who's invested this level of interest. But this is the second time she's called me out for double texting it's like she's waiting for it.
Opened with the ruin you opener.
Starts some sort of shit test. The key to her heart had head in it. Going to ask her if its giving or recieving. If she says giving ill ask if she can handle it. If she says reeiving , you look like you have a great pussy to eat out
Wondering if I should address the trying with I'm persistent and I'd ove it alot, but not as much as you would.
Want to call her a bratt and try to talk about what i do to bratts
Opened with the ruin you opener (side note-seems to be working very well but the girls I go for are young so they end up getting misconceptions of being used and tossed or some sort of negative experience or they just become very shy from the sentence although it's very good at grabbing they're attention so any insight as to how to make this seem as appealing to them as possible once theyre hooked on the opener would be great)
Now this girl in particular is smoking hot. She's young so I think she's quite shy with the way I opened her. I thought since she seems a little curious and not against it (although a little unsure) it's worth trying to go straight for the number. The voice note is me telling her I "good were on the same page, I don't like texting too much I prefer phone calls shoot me your number and lets make that happen" no response yet and in the event she doesn't respond, I've been having alot if luck with video messages so I'm thinking of sending one asking if she'd be too nervous for a phone call with me. Not sure if this is the play or of I should try to rizz her up with text game. Thoughts?
Shes just turned 18yo and seems pretty shy and innocent I have suspicions she's a virgin
Very interested in me and meeting me for weeks. Was tryna set the meet herself at one point.
Finally found the time and Set the date over phone.
Leave her be for a few days, day of the date msg her and she starts to act flakey, agrees to talk over the phone that night.
Ignores me for days on sms and snap then leaves on open
Hit her with a take away and she sends this:
I'm so sorry but I'm focusing on myself rn and not interested in meeting anyone or getting to know anyone at the moment
I'm not unsure of you I just have alot right now and not trying to meet anyone or get to know anyone right now
Its nothing youve done and would love to meet you in the future but right now it's not what's best for me
She left my attempts to salvage it talking about the 180 she's done on opened
Any ideas on what the move is?
Pretty damn long, details interactions with this girl over 3 weeks. Thinking she's either a virgin or met someone. The way the interaction has halted, i would think its point of no return. However she has invested heavily so i think there is still a chance. Any help would be much appreciated.
Started talking to this girl over 3 weeks ago on bumble. She had just turned 18, I'm 23 myself.
She pulled me onto snap pretty quickly after the "ill give you my professional opinion on your booty on our date".
She showed strong interest in meeting me for our date calling me handsome, cute interesting ect as we talked and the weeks went by.
I kept pushing back the date to see if i can sexualise things first, plus wasnt the best time. She side stepped any sexulisation with "OH really" or some other side step.
Me: I'm sorry but I have to ask because of your age, are you a virgin?
Her: I wish
Me: good so it's not that
Her: not what?
Me: your not afraid
Her: who said I'm not afraid
Me: well I hope your not because you have nothing to be afraid about
Her: it's just funny what kinda girl do you think I am (someshit like that)
Me: sex is a main activity that guys and girls get up to so I don't treat it as taboo
Her: I get that but I don't like talking about sex because that implies that's what we're gunna do when we meet and I don't know if I'll sleep with someone until I meet them. If you just want sex that's fine just say that's what you want
Me: I already told you what I want, a good time with a cute girl. That's either just sex or getting to know someone I don't mind
Her: good answer babe
Are you going to sleep
Me:yes, goodnight.
Ghosts me for a couple days
I'm thinking she was pissed I didn't continue to sexualize after but not too sure at all
I'm thinking she could be one of them innocents age and all
Finally get her on the phone for the first time
Get to know her much better.
Tried to question her on why she is so shy and innocent with her bumble profile saying something casual. She claims she didn't know that meant hookups and downloaded it to meet people on another state while on holiday. So then I explained to her why I was sexualizing so much, because her profile gave me the go. And plus she was on a fuck up. Next day deletes her bumble account.
Call her a bit later and ask her why she did that, tells me "some fuckwit" told her it's a fuck up and the people on there were pretty much lames. But she finds me interesting. I kept her warm telling her we will talk again soon to set up the date.
Texted me out the blue to meet up. Wasn't a good time for me so I ignored her and called her 2 days later to set up a date.
Had a decent phone call but first 2 calls were better than the last one. Got her to send me photos cos I joked I forgot what she looked like and she was very hot. I played it cool over the phone. Told her I'm glad I know who I'm talking to now. Set the date told her I'll pick her up.
This was a Monday, I hit her on Friday and she's responsive but then starts flaking.
Me: looking forward to finally seeing you
Her: me too
Her: I have my friends bd party on Sunday tho
Me: it's Saturday tho
Her: it can't be Saturday because I'm working that day and wouldn't have agreed to it so not my fault
Me: was definately Saturday
Me: I feel like your half flaking on me and half trolling me
Her: I'm not trolling
Me: are you free this Saturday?
Me: I'll call you tonight
Her: having a nap, call me after
Me: 100%
Her:Xxx
Me: can I call?
No response, usually responds pretty fast with a call set up.
Wait 10 mins
Me: if your too bust to see me tommorow, I understand another time.
This is through text so I I can't tell if she's read or not.
On Sunday hit her with a snap and a voice note.
Ignores for days and then just opens them.
I text her to face time me, I think she's unsure, not comfortable with the idea of meeting me.
Ignores for days
The next weekend I send her a playful voice note pretending I think her phones been confiscated by her mum start it off by talking her telling her about the time my dad confiscated my iPad for days and belted the shit out of me every time he got a message he didn't approve of. Then "talked" to her mother about how me and her didn't meet the best way but I find her different and how I really like her and want to get to know her on a fun date and I'd look after her. Then spoke directly to her saying " if you just don't like me anymore, I didn't take you for a time waister you seemed very straightforward so if your not interested lemme know and I can stop trying"
She opened that one pretty fast and responded
Her: I'm sorry I'm focused on myself rn I'm not interested in meeting anyone ore getting to know at the moment.
Me: you seemed to really want to meet me and seemed to like me as much as i like you. If your unsure let's talk about it ASAP, I'm dissapearing at the end of the month
Otherwise I understand
Her: I'm not unsure I'm just not interested in meeting anyone now it's not what's best for me. Understand? I'm being genuine.
Me: just making sure this wasn't the case, it would be a shame to let any momentum we've built up dissapear.
If your too busy I totally understand
Her: it's nothing you've done and I would love to meet you in the future but right now it's not what's best for me.
Me: well I'm glad it's not but you've done a complete 180 so I had to assume somethings up.
I'm not too sure we'll have a chance at meeting too far in the future but let's see what happens.
I never imagined being scorpios would make our love this difficult. ( pretty bad text it was referencing her talking about us both being scorpios when we first talked on the phone).
Left it on read
Now mans left with his dick in his hand. This was the hottest most interested girl I have pulled so far. I'm so lost on what the next step is or if it's point of no return.
I'm thinking about hitting her in a week and a half with a
Hey trouble or yo sexy and then ask her when we can talk. Any suggestions?
Cheers
