Yo me and a few other PWF boys have been liking and posting high social value comments on each other's IG's. I know Alex is not the biggest fan of IG so hope this post is alright!
Some of the PWF boys from this forum inside the group are getting better results from IG than dating apps. I've been doing IG briefly and have had girls on Tinder who were on the fence about meeting up and even giving out their numbers. But as soon as I moved them to my IG and they watched my stories for 1-2 weeks they reached out and tried soft closing ME. So if you're still sleeping on IG, it's time to change that.
If you want to join the free IG engagement group, just post your handle below or follow me (@toppkklass) and I'll add you. It's free, the group is small so it's not crowded and we're helping each others' IG game and life in general.
PS. I have a killer cold DM opener. It only works on IG and not on dating apps. I’ve had girls tell me it’s the best ”sliding in the dm’s” message they’ve ever gotten. I've promised to share it inside the group once we get a few more people in it 🔥
She lives 2h from me. Soft closed on Tinder. Got her on phone call. Down to meetup and spend the night etc. She said she could come her. Then we both had to travel and didnt talk much for 2 weeks. I reenaged and she soft closed me wanting me to come to her since we’re both back. I’ve already tried the I’ll come to you the 2nd time if you come to me the first time. She ddnt really bite on it
How can I handle this objectiom? Thanks!
Just landed in (city) 📍
My passion is exploring the exotic corners of the world and seductively whispering one of my 3 languages in your ear.
Bonus points if you have beautiful smile, good sense of humour, or a great 🍑
Shoot me a message if you down for some drinks or (name of a local dish) 🥂
PS. Definitely taller than what you are in heels 😈
I live in scandinavia.
Will travel to eastern europe soon.
So doesn't make any sense to have the scandinavnian language in my bio.
I know the language in the country I'm going to but not perfect. And I know english. So I know 3 languages.
Which language do I put in my bio? English?
What do you put in your tinder bio while traveling? Do you mention you're visiting the place? Or anything else?
I'm about to jump into the IG game (my profile is soon done) and got a cool idea. This is 100% optional for anyone reading this.
But the help I've gotten on this forum from not just Alex everyone else has been INVALUABLE. It has improved my text game rapidly.
So I want to give back + follow some cool people.
If you post your IG below I'll follow you and like your pictures + comment on your post whenever you post something new to increase your social value (if you want).
If I for whatever reason don't, forget, or miss your post, you can just DM me and I'll do it for you.
No catch.
Just want to give back to all the people who give a shit ton of free value on here.
And who knows... we might end up creating a PWF IG engagement group where we all go and like each other pics and post high-value comments (basically playing the same game and cheatcode these ig broads have for the past several years lol)
PS. If you can upvote this post I would highly appreciate it so as many guys here as possible can see it.
Did a very solid cold approach (pwf style). She texted me 5 min after we said goodbye.
Got her number on a Thursday:.
Me: -Enzo ;)
Her: Hi so which day did you have in mind for our drink? 😌
Me: What’s your schedule like next week
Her: I have nothing planned next week
Me: What about tuesday night
Her: That’s perfect
Me: Perfect, we’ll split a bottle of wine then
Her: Will be super good
Me: Yes I look forward to it ;)
Her: Me too :) [I like her message]
Sunday:
Me: Hey 🍾
Her: Heey 🍾
Me: How’s your weekend been
Her: It’s been good I was in (other city). How about you?
Me: Nice what trouble did you get into there
Me: Just chilled at the beach, everything missing was a bit of (her name) ;)
Her: She tells where she was in the city and says how the beach sounded nice
Me: Yes, picked out a cute outfit for tomorrow yet
No response.
Next day, day of the date:
Me: Let me know if we’re not on for tonight so I know (I send this at 2pm)
Her: Hi I just woke up fell asleep before you wrote, I woke up with a high temperature 🤒(send this at 9 pm)
Her: I was looking forward so meeting up but I’m afraid to go out if I’m sick
Me: Ah sucks being sick!! But it’s no problem, hope you’re feeling better soon
(According to when she sent the text, she slept from 8pm to 4pm the next day lol)
5 days later on Sunday:
Me: Hey 🍒
Her: Hello there
Me: You feeling any better
Her: I’m feeling good now
Me: Perfect, we should celebrate 😏
Her: Yes we should 😌
Me: I have a good idea how (send pic of wine bottle)
Her: I’m down 😊
Me: 👌
Me: How’s this week looking
Her: Think I’m free all week
Me: Wednesday night?
Her: Yes sounds good 😌
Me: Yes, especially on my romantic balcony ;)
No response.
Wednesday on day of the date:
Me: Gosling meme
She reads it but no response.
Her at 9pm that evening:
Her: Oh my god I didn’t see the message from sunday I’m sorry 💕
Me: So cute but so flakey 😏
Her: Hahaha, what are you doing friday night?
Me Open as of now, did you want to give this a third charm try ;)
Her Yess of course I want to ;)
Me: Let’s do friday then, you’ll have to make it up to me then ;)
Her: I will do that ;)
Me: Likes her message
2 days later day of the date:
Me: Hey blonde are we still good for tonight
And she hasn’t responded all day or say night for this.
Would you even bother with this chick at this point? If so, how?
Her: Sent a pic of us when I approached
Me: Cute ;)
Her: 💁♀️
Me: Were you stubborn with the customers today
Her: Of course I was. The whole system was down so I had to obstinate a bunch
Me: You'll have to let your frustration out at the gym
Me: Or the wine bottle
Her: I'm thinking about going to the gym but I think I've eaten too much candy to even bother haha
Me: That's a good combo a saturday evening ;)
Her: Perfect!! (she replied 1.5 day later)
Me: Yes. You know what else is perfect
Her: No, what?
Me: If we split a bottle of white wine some time
Her: Hahah you did well there
Me: Waiting for us ;) (send pic of wine bottle)
4 days later:
Me: If you're too nervous I understand
3 days later:
Her: I'm very nervous
I just know she's not nervous lol. Super hot girl with plenty of options. But barely has time for guys she said when we talked in person
She was acting sassy when I tried to soft close her on Tinder, called her out, she admitted she didn't understand why I'd go on a date with her (I'm guessing she's insecure). Did some cold personality reading on her and it was spot on (nobody has ever read her like that). I make wine plans etc. Did everything text book about confirming the date the day before etc. We both looked forward to it etc.
She's never been on a Tinder date (she says) and lives 1 hour away from me. She admitted to being nervous several times day before the date. Lots of reasons for her to flake I know that.
Here's the convo....
Day of the date:
Her: Can I come by tomorrow instead? 🙏
Her: Or let’s do today
Me: Make up your mind ;)
Her: Haha I’ve had such a crazy start to my day, so stressful. If tomorrow works for that would be amazing 🙏
Me: No problem let’s do tomorrow, you can make it up to me then ;)
Her: Hahah I’ll make it up to you with my company xD Thank you 🙏 🙏 🙏
Me: Sounds good, see you then 🍾
Her: Yes we will 😄
Next day:
Me: Gosling meme
Her: Hi I won’t make it today I’m sorry hope you have nice saturday!
Me: Breaking my heart now (her name)
Her: Sorry 😞
Me: If you’re too nervous I understand
Her: I just don’t feel like it... To plan is really not my thing, I’m more spontaneous and it’s hard to explain I know it sounds just like an excuse 😅
Me: Sure no problem, I’ll reach out when I got time again
Her: Haha I think we’re very different with the planning but if we make it work some time it would be nice 😄
Me: It would wouldn’t it
This was 13 days ago. Haven't talked since.
It's an BS excuse right? I've never heard the "I don't like to plan things so I'm going to cancel" flake LOL
Do I just reenage her and try and plan another date? Or hit her up with for a same-day date to see if she's spontaneous?
I have a good profile with good pictures. Gotten good feedback from Alex and other guys here. From girls too. But I only get a few matches per week at best. Sometimes several days or a full week without any matches. Barely any likes. Got Tinder platinum about 2 weeks ago and for the past week I've gotten 1 like. My profile is verified.
Has anyone successfully gotten around a shadowban (not just guessing)?
I know the basics of resetting your account (new number, new wifi ip, new pics or changing pixels of current pics, etc). But do I need a new phone and a new apple id? Anything else you consider?
