Comments by Trevor Teolis

In a lot these, I can't see your face and/or you're too far away. But

• The one where you're crouching in the woods and sitting on the log is a good photo of your face. However, it is a bit posed.
• The one where you're wearing a scarf on the sidewalk (and where your front is facing the camera) would be a good first photo if you were looking up. If you fix that, it would probably be your best photo.
• The one of you in the boat with your thumb up is a good activity photo

I'd suggest retaking the first two I mentioned (and wear different outfits in them).

I agree with this, thanks. I'm definitely inviting her to my place next time. In the meantime, I set up two dates with other girls to get my mind off of it haha.

I am apprehensive, though, about addressing sex directly without making things awkward.

• Would you suggest communicating my intentions through my actions, i.e. by escalating the make-outs physically?
• Or having a "sit down" conversation where I say that I'm interested in sex... If this, then should it be over text or in person? (I've never done this before lol)

Multiple girls would be great, but it's much easier to get a single girl. And a single girl can easily satisfy your horniness haha.

I don't understand the fear of falling in love with a girl. Firstly, falling in love is an unlikely event for anyone. Secondly, it's usually a good thing. There's no reason to fear going on dates with women because of that.

If I were you, I would try to go on as many dates as possible in Colombia (with non-hookers). Try to close all of them and get as much dating and sexual experience as possible.

The 3rd or 4th ones are the best. But it would be better if you were smiling. Also, since it's black and white, it would be better as a second, third, or fourth picture (not the profile picture)

She's been for a few months, but she said she just got the dating app so her mindset might be similar to a girl who just arrived. Also, the problem is anything flirty I say is lost in translation. I'll try "mamacita" and "que chimba" for now haha.

Haha I'll definitely use those, thanks

Most of our conversations are in person. I'm trying to figure out how to flirt on the date. She's from Quibdo, if that helps.

That would help. Are there flirty phrases that I can use? I only have "hola linda" and "hola hermosa" lol.

I haven't replied yet. Yeah I was thinking that or "sup flakey".

"come to my place and teach me" requires too much compliance from her at this point in the conversation. Probably better to hint at the idea of a date first and say something like "Maybe we should try it on our date ;)". If she responds positively, you can follow up with, "I'll get the wine ready" or something like that.

Also, I don't think asking "do you like wine" is silly even if she's Italian. I'm Italian-American but don't like wine and it's not big in our family.

Curious to see what Alex says.