Girl responded to opener. Any good follow up?
She seems interested/invested so just wondering what the optimal text here would be
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She seems interested/invested so just wondering what the optimal text here would be
(Screenshots included) A little backstory: We started talking on IG, got her number, then set up a date. We went on the date but there was no make-out or sex since it was an outdoor boba date but we genuinely clicked (I know, might be hard to believe). She seemed interested for a 2nd date but randomly fell off. Did I make any glaring mistakes in these texts? These are the responses I'm thinking: "I genuinely didn't take you for the flakey type" (I like this because even though there's no 2nd date set, she was the one to suggest the 2nd date in the first place and we were amidst scheduling it. Also, she kinda "flaked" from our conversation. And girls generally don't like being categorized as some type of girl. ) "So is there a specific reason you randomly disappeared on me" (This can help get to the root cause but it also kinda admits defeat, confirming I did something wrong and that we're at the point of no return. Also, it kinda comes off as butthurt and combative. ) "I'm legitimately just curious, why say you had a great time with me and are looking forward to round 2 only to randomly disappear". (This seems too invested since she hasn't been responding and would probably work best as a last resort text. ) If there are any better suggestions, please let me know! Any and all help is greatly appreciated.
I've hooked up once with this girl in the backseat of my "roomy and romantic SUV" and want to see her again. She doesn't seem as quick with her responses as before the date. Maybe I should've watched Alex's "How to Make a Girl Orgasm" vid right before to refresh my memory but I believe I fucked her decently. Anyways, I reengage her and she hits me with "I'm seeing someone right now". Any tips on how to respond? Maybe I can hit her with something to just see how serious things are? Or send a text that implies that "We're all seeing people, but us seeing each other is much more important." The first pic starts off right after our date where we hooked up.