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I was watching Alex’s interview with Wingman Plus this evening and someone suggested using “like for a tbh” as a prompt. I noticed Hinge has this new poll prompt thing and thought I’d see if it gets any results (for science of course). Anyone else try anything like this? What were your experiences?
I wanted to share this with you guys. I’m very much a beginner and I kind of knew this girl I was talking to was going to flake. For a moment, when I got this text my heart sank and disappointment started running through my head. Then, something said “this is an opportunity. Don’t pass it up.” So I engaged, I didn’t just give up and I had a small amount of success here in getting her to rethink things. As of now, she has not responded. I don’t care. To me, I just won. Not too long ago, I’d have given up, gotten pissed and blew out the conversation. Today I bet on myself. I took the first step in playing to win instead of not to lose. She could ghost me, block me, cuss me out right now for all I care. I bet on myself for once. That’s fucking progress and I’m really proud of myself for it
I have a date with this girl set up for Thursday. The texting has been fairly good, I’ve had her engaged an laughing a lot but she has a tendency to stop responding and isn’t engaging after so I am starting to get flaky vibes. I don’t think I’ll engage her today but tomorrow, I know it’s best to soft confirm. I’m thinking “picked out a cute outfit for tomorrow?” but I’d like suggestions too. What’s the best way to approach this?
So I matched with this girl on Hinge and it was a super good conversation. Randomly though, she unmatched me. Can you see where I went wrong? Maybe I need to be more succinct?
Hey guys. So things are working out. I’ve gotten my text game better than it has ever been (I am still very much a beginner but I’m better than I’ve ever been) and I am starting to talk to and go out with a few girls. Frankly, these girls are hotter than others ive been out with before and I credit a lot of that to learning text game; I’m excited as hell. But alas. old narratives kick in. The old thoughts of “she’s just going to flake on you” or “she’s talking to other guys way better than you” creep back in. This happens and I get in my head and really struggle to get out of it. Then I feel like I have to do something so I send a text I shouldn’t and it just spirals from there. I’m very aware of it, and I’m working HARD on being better this time around, hence I’m talking to you guys about it. Have any of you struggled with this? If so, what mindsets helped you overcome it and what would you suggest I do to overcome it?
Hey gents, been talking to this girl and I did end up shooting my number, but she set her location to mine to meet guys locally because she wants to move here when she meets someone. I’m down to talk to her but I don’t see it going anywhere anytime soon. Would you keep talking to her just to practice text game and maybe if she show up, meet in person, or just let it go? I’m leaning towards the former because I know I need the practice but I don’t want to be a dick.
Hey guys, any suggestions on where to take this? I think she responded well to the soft close
Hey Gents. First off, I’m really happy to have found this content and this community I’m fairly new to it, and it’s been the majority of content I’ve consumed over the past few weeks. I would love your opinion on this exchange. I thought things were going super well and she was really invested , got a good soft close but when I left my number , nothing. Is this worth reengaging? If so, when? For transparency’s sake, the voice memo is “if you’re nervous, I understand “. Any tips on what I could do to save it or how I could have done better would be much appreciated. Thanks gentlemen.