Week 2 - Need Money
This week was beyond my wildest expectations. I had 2 dates set up and I went out clubbing with my friends on friday. The first date was with a girl that has a boyfriend far away from the city. It was sort of a "I'll show you the city since you're new here vibe" But frankly I got great chemistry and great IOIs. I didn't game this girl too much though, I think I have a bit of a moral block when it comes to this stuff even though their relationship didn't seem too serious. Sort of undecided if I should try to change that mentality. The second one was with a Chinese girl that had lunch with me and then we started a language exchange class. The interaction didn't go bad but I caught myself slipping into the friendzone by the end so I just straight up told her that I think she's cute as fuck and that we should hang out more. She got really nervous and said that people usually do things slower in China. I did fuck up cause I said "If you don't like me it's ok" like twice which I recognize is really pussy shit. I managed to navigate the situation and make here really relax and we ended up sharing a nice handhold and a hug by the end. I'm not sure where this one is gonna go exactly but it was a very big step for me to actually have the balls to just tell her what I want. I also was not afraid to touch her, she recoiled a bit at first but then sort of got into my rythm. We'll see where it goes. Strangely the highlights of the week were 2 unicorns I met on the street. I met this really cute tanned Vietnamese girl through day game and she literally took me to her hotel room and we had a great afternoon into the night... So yeah. I guess my first lay is really unceremonious. I'm not TOO into her though, she's maybe a 7.5 and she keeps blowing up my phone after we fucked. The other one was a Chinese girl that I took on a direct coffee date and the conversation was getting a bit platonic until she made a joke and asked "Are you a pervert lol?" To which I just responded "Yes". We started heavily sexualizing after that and yeah. I banged her in her dorm. Again, extremely anti-climatic but it shows the value of not being afraid to be your true self. My biggest disappointment was night game. For some reason, day game comes really naturally to me but I'm sort of afraid to approach girls in nightclubs. I think it might be something to do with the loud music. It also didn't help that my friend was all depressed because of a guy and I felt like I had to babysit her the whole night, overall a bit of a shitty night but now we know what we need to work on. My next objective is to get a part-time job. I'm having a lot of trouble managing all these dates and nights out because I keep having to ask my parents for money and it's just sad. This week I'll search for something to do cause uni work is really easy this semester. Also decided to start martial arts instead of the gym cause frankly it's really boring for me. Things I've learned: Don't be afraid if girls react poorly to your touch. I've had this occur a few times with the Chinese lady and instead of saying "Oh I'm sorry" I find that saying stuff like "Haha you're kinda shy" works MUCH better. It gets her justifying her behavior to you and she's kinda the weird one. You can just play it off as normal flirtiness and reassure her that you're a chill guy. Abundance mentality will save your life, I got some natural reactions of neediness and obsessiveness with some girls this week but knowing that my phone is full of messages from other hot girls takes away all the bullshit. The reality is that we're great guys and we deserve great girls. If a girl fucks around with you or wastes your time she doesn't deserve you. Do not jerk off excessively. A lot of you guys recommended not jerking off at all which I agree with but in situations of extreme blueballs or just pain I'd say just let it out. DO NOT use porn though just jerk off to natural stuff or find a girl to bang. Things to improve: Need to get a job so I can continue improving my game consistently Fashion is a bit better but still far away from even 20% of ideal Sexualization needs to improve even further Online pics still dogshit Need to get my schedule in order Thanks for the therapy guys. I'll keep posting until I feel like I reached a level where I'm satisfied with my efforts.