What to say to this insult?
Not sure the best way to proceed with this. It sounds like an insult and I probably should just move on but any chance of saving it?
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Not sure the best way to proceed with this. It sounds like an insult and I probably should just move on but any chance of saving it?
My opener was bad, I know. I sent it before watching any of the videos. She did reply twice though. This one is confusing me. Her profile doesn’t seem to suggest any kind of sexual undertone other than one picture of a blue sexy dress showing a little leg. But she’s using wink faces. I was thinking about taking it sexual by saying something like “I know of something that will give us both a workout” or something along those lines. Bad idea? Still watching the videos everyday and learning. I don’t get a whole lot of matches so I try not to waste them when I get them.
Just started watching the videos a couple days ago. I am new to this scene and I'm generally a pretty serious and not particularly witty guy so this is way out of my comfort zone. I matched with this girl on OkCupid originally in december and we exhchanged a few messages and then she stopped replying. Yesterday I sent her the "a woman of few words I see" line and she replied saying "I honestly never get notifications on here lol". Told her to shoot me her number and we'd text, which she did. Heres an excerpt from our texts. She told me she's free this weekend and confirmed she wants to meet. I'm trying to keep the playfulness up which is difficult for me. I used the "Nah, I hate sex" line which now I kinda feel like I could've said something different for that context, but not really sure what. It still seemed to work out though. On the last text she didn't reply to my thread "you'll have to find out on our date". I wasn't happy with that line when I sent it and I feel like I could've said something else instead to make it more sexual, but I don't know what. Any suggestions for the future? Thanks!