Comments by whiteranger whiteranger

I've been in eastern europe for the last year or so, because honestly, I find them the most attractive per 100 girls, compared to other ethnicities (whether it's latina, asian, black, germanic, italian, arabic, etc etc).

About 60% of the girls that I've been with in Eastern europe have kissed a girl, been with a girl, or want to sleep with a girl/3some.

But they can be a pain in the ass due to a large percentage of them being more conservative/traditional.

I've never been a big fan of gaming in the US because of the potential cost investments and potential superiority complexes and level of competition, but I've also never gamed in the US.

What are your thoughts of gaming in the US based on states (i.e. what are the differences between LA girls, vs. georgia girls, vs hawaii girls, vs so on.)?

Where, outside of the US, have you gamed?

My circumstances are different. I'm a digital nomad that's been to a LOT of countries (in the 60's range), and I never stay in a country long enough to develop these kinds of situations.

But yea, everything you said about 3somes is true. At least 30% of the girls are down for a 3some (regardless of culture/demographics/country), and about 10% of those actually have a girl they can bring. But most of the time, you would have to put in the work for it.

But as I've said, I'm not in an area long enough, or I lose interest and move onto the next dopamine rush.

Are you primarily USA-based?

Also, Tinder (or whatever other online app) is definitely a goldmine, but it's also a pain in the ass/one of the most frustrating/distracting apps imaginable. Every 5 minutes you check for new notifications of your next potential lay. Afterwards, you lose about 15-50 minutes, because you need to get back into focus.

If you are into digital marketing (ecom/DS/arbitrage), then you understand the incredible value of focus at home... and that focus evaporates every time you open that app.

Your trouble shooting is understanding that she has 400+ matches, plus another 400 in her premium waiting to hit her up.

Most of the dudes hit her up with "let's go for drink, dinner, some sexual compliment, some other compliment, etc etc".

You are a droplet in a sea of thirsty dudes on that app.

There is no solution, other than to copy and paste templates, over and over, until something sticks. There is no legit formula.

For every one date that you manage to get out, you will go through 30-100 ghosts/flakes/time wasters.

The only scientifically proven solution? Get amazing pix, and have a set copy/paste formula that you use unemotionally like a robot.

Good luck.

You are on another level my friend. My count is a mere 350 (tracked), I'm a typical blonde Caucasian, with only 1 real threesome under my belt, and plenty of 3 girls in one day, and a single 4 girls in one day. About 60% of my lays are from online, while the rest are from street game/night game/social game, etc.

As you've pointed out, WE are the fucked up ones.

With the new "pop em and drop em" dating culture, most relationships are literally on the edge of being dissolved.

If we don't connect on a spiritual, emotional, physical, and interests level with someone, then that person will seem replaceable.

We are habitualized to replace these girls, and perhaps most relationships in our lives. It's a social and emotional skillset that we've mastered.

Furthermore, the non-stop desire to seek novelty and validation, in order to get our "feel good" dopamine fix, is what ultimately fucks us up the most.

The dopamine rush of getting social media validation. The dopamine rush of getting girls to hit you up for sex. The dopamine rush of the novelty of each lay/bang/smash.

We've discovered that there are no consequences to having endless amounts of sex with beautiful girls. There are no consequences to replacing them/throwing them away, and finding something new...

Except of course our own mental downward spiral into a reactive emotional state, where we end up feeling empty regardless... because that "feel good" emotion has already worn off, and you need the next lay, and we end up back on our dating apps minutes later (even after a 3some/4some, etc etc).

Banging hundreds of women ISN'T wrong - I think it's fucking awesome. There is no "truth" in reality. You can do whatever the fuck you want, you can live an awesome life of debauchery and hedonism (I definitely do, and so do hundreds of thousands of other guys).

But if it comes at a major cost to your OWN happiness, and mental clarity, and focus, AND people point out that we have some serious social ineptitudes, THEN it's time to figure out how to help yourself.

I can't say that meditation has helped me overcome the constant NEED to get women, or the desire to test new methods to getting girls (like trying new messaging templates, or as what you did with sending screenshots of sex conversations)...

But meditation definitely relaxes the mind - ESPECIALLY when your brain short-circuits itself into an emotional chaotic state.

Long story short, your issue isn't simply seeing women as disposable.

Your issue is finding a mental balance where your mind isn't in a chaotic free-for-all to cut off anything that doesn't keep you in a constant dopamine-infused "feel-good"-seeking state.

P.S. I try to do 10 minutes of meditation daily. Still working on it, but it helps a LOT.