Comments by Sunny Khatri

Hey kanishk how are you bro. It's been long time since we met. The thing here is way tooooo gamey. I got 6 straight to house dates in 2 weeks when i was using tinder in April. What i noticed is more gamey you get the worse. So never ever mention anything related to love relationship sex or marriage . Always start with a 5-6 word light hearted fun message of telling what you liked in her then follow up with some light teasing like " you get brownie points for blonde hair " by now you are in then 4-5 get to know n once you see she is interested in talking then go for close. You might get lmr handle it in fun n playful way n you are done

I'm studying for an officer job so i have to study 10-12 hours a day and 1 hour of workout daily and 6-8 hours of sleep and other Time for grooming and my hobbies like Netflix. So if i go by my schedule I won't get any time to text girls and it has happened quite a lot that my few sets just die down because I make them wait a way too longer sometimes few days . And some girls even complaint about it that i just need 30 minutes - 1 hour of your daily time can't you do that n all . I was in a relationship for 1.5 years and I couldn't text her regularly she kept complianing about me not giving her time so later on we brokeup. So because of such reasons i decided to give them time so i take out time out of my schedule to text them like doing my work n texting them at the same time but now i realize I'm putting them first over my own priorities n needs

Okay i got it now. Thanks for the help bro. After reading this i feel like I was texting too much. Thing is girls keep texting and i reply within 2-3 hours to every message whenever i come online. With some girls they text you back whenever you text them and if you don't reply back and sit online on WhatsApp talking to other girls they get needy n possessive so in this process sometimes i end up talking to few girls till 3-4 in the morning so when they come on date it's the easiest lay n few of them who don't come on dates loose interest because of so much texting.
I have made a rule though which I used to follow last year.
Reply to her last message at 11-12a.m.
Then one reply at 3-4 p.m.
Third one around 8p.m.
Then 4-5 back n forth message around 10-11p.m. at night then i used to sleep.
This was working quit well but later on i felt it's all about the initial approach texting doesn't really matter that much so i let my guards down n that lead to so much small talk on texting

Bro p.m. me also your Instagram username. I also want to have a look at pictures

Bro you went too far. Instead of being a high value it looked like of bragging and self qualifying and at the same time it looked incongruent. She pushed you away n in reaction you changed. You know deep inside that when she pushed you away there was an emotional reaction inside you even if you didn't type or showed in messages but it's clearly visible

Okay I will go this Saturday and get clicked in few dark color different outfits and different places

These are the only ones i have. That's why i asked before even creating an account. If they are not upload worthy i will go out again this weekend to click some new ones

Yes . In India 50% girls don't understand English so we need to simplify and use as simple English as possible and we always talk in Hindi so of boys as well English is not that fluent

My brother had success writing ' hey gorgeous 😉 '